I’m 21 she’s 18?

[Anonymous]

Started seeing this girl, get on really well knew each other for a while and we do like each other, lot in common and after gettin to know her she is mature for 18. however I feel abit un easy about the age gap for some reason, I turn 22 in may and she’s 19 in early October, is this bad?

[SueShe]

The age gap is not an issue. Actually, in your case it is ideal.

Women tend to be intellectually more mature than men by an average of 2-3 years. That means that at age 18, she is about as mature as a guy aged 20-21.

In your case, that would mean that both of you have the same intellectual maturity. That is not a bad thing because, even if she is younger than you, you are at the same level intellectually.

It would be a totally different story if the ages were inversed. That would mean a theoretical intellectual gap of up to 6 years and that is not ideal.

[SueShe]

Also, ask GaG to change your age as you are misleading the community by indicating in your bio that you are actually in the age group of 30-35 year old.

[bones_20]

Well you say you’re 21 and your age group says 30-35, so this is very confusing and I don’t know what to believe. 🙄

[Asker]

Ahahah genuinely don’t know why it says that I’m 21 like

[Avicenna]

It's perfectly fine. I had an 18 year old girlfriend when I was 22.

[DaviRon]

I'm 26 and she's 21

[Iron_Man]

That’s not a problem