Maybe I'm completely overthinking this... but I just can't tell if he's interested. I'm asking because I feel a shift in energy on his end. I feel like he's taken a step back from me. As for me, I like him but I tend to not show a lot of interest in a guy that I like right away. I prefer to act in a cool manner.
Any thoughts are greatly appreciated on how I should proceed. Thanks!
Most Helpful Guy
You shouldve showed or said more to let him know you were interested. But oh well, just lwarn from this and apply it to the next guy in line.
Most Helpful Girl
He WAS interested (might still have feelings but I can tell he's cooling off), but you weren't showing enough interest to me. The whole not showing the same amount of enthusiasm in the texting is a big red flag and you also refused to let him pick you up, which seems like you just don't want to be in an enclosed space with him. You only ever seemed to reach out once and you went on a hike... that seems like a "friendly" date to me personally. It seems like your cool demeanor may have come across cold and he assumed you weren't interested.