Acting too interested or not interested enough?

[annabee123]

So I met a guy at school and he friended me on facebook and got my #. I texted him that afternoon to strike up conversation, and we talked pretty consistently for three days in a row, with me always being the first one to text. I ended up asking him to get coffee with me, because I had a break between classes the other day, so we had coffee and it was fun and he texted me like right after saying we should hang out again, but I was busy so I wrote a short response agreeing and didn't hear back from him after that. Last night I texted him because my train was late and it was creepy on the platform so I was just striking up convos with people and we texted for like 5 minutes (he said his phone was dying). I did mention that I had a good time hanging out with him when we had coffee, and he said he did too.

I like, don't know if he's into me as a friend or something more (Though he's called me cute like more than a few times), but I'm starting to get really into him. I'm just worried that if I play it to cool, he'll assume I'm not interested but if I act to interested, I'll come off as desperate.

Im gonna be over by our school having drinks with friends this weekend, and I kinda want him to come meet up with us (he had said that since he's kinda to town, I should show him places to go out), even just to get sort of a friendship going, but I'm worried that might come off as coming on too strong. And there are times when I just text people to strike convos up when I'm bored, and I want to be able to do that with him, but I feel kinda weird about it.

Do you think if I do that, I'm overdoing it, or am I not showing interest enough?

[Misssixty83]

Never chase a man. Men are hunters and if your chasing him, where is the challenge?! Let him hunt you. If he texts, text him back a couple of hours/half hour later (Your a busy lady you see ;o)), don't be too eager but be very friendly and bubbly. You want this man to think about you, so while your waiting a couple of hours to text him back he'll be wondering why you aren't and what are you up too? who your with? even if your just sat at home in your pajamas watching dirty dancing! :o) Don't get too serious on him too soon and show him the fun side of you to draw him in. Men's feelings for woman develop a lot slower than our feelings for them so take it slow, don't jump in bed with him either thinking this will get him as sex and feelings for men are very two seperate things.

I'm no expert though, I just know men are natural hunters and you should be chased. Like the film "He's just not that into you" if a guy is interested he will contact you.

I wish you lots of luck

~X~X~X~

[slipslender]

go for it. I don't think that's overdoing it at all... :)