Is it illegal to date someone who is two years older than me if I'm 14 and he's 16?

[Baby_t]

[Paris13]

I see No Date rape,' so do not fear, dear. As long as your parents know, nothing seems seems out of sorts, then carry on.
My sister was 13 when she got into her First Real Relationship with a 16 year old guy. Both families were chummy, never a problem, and if the guy Is trustworthy, then everyone stays a happy family.
However, if there is Trouble in Paradise where you blab of "Rape," of course, I am sure they could press some not so pretty charges, so for Now.. Keep it light and semi sweet with no tweet.
Good luck. xx

[Paris13]

Thanks for the upvote, @Baby_t :)) xxoo

[Baby_t]

Thanks that's the best thing I to hear.

[Paris13]

Why, thank you... wise ol owl, sweetie. lolxxoo

[Paris13]

Thank you, @Baby_t for the Vote of confidence. xx

[Baby_t]

No problem

[GirlScout]

What country are you in? It's the sexual relations which make things illegal, but don't send him any naughty pics of yourself either, in some countries, the UK included, you can get charged with distribution of underage pornography.

[Baby_t]

I live in the US

[willow74]

Right now its not, but in two years when he's 18 and you're 16 it will be. As long as your parents are okay with it in two years, I wouldn't worry about it.

[R3d_Anonymous]

It depends on the state. In my state, both scenarios are easily legal.

[Anonymous]

Most answers here are wrong. (Not all)

Dating is not illegal in any western country. I believe there are a few countries where it's illegal for women to leave the house without a male relative chaperone, but unless you're in one of those, you can 'date' anyone.

Sexual contact depends entirely on where you live. In the U. S., it would depend on the state. In some it would be a crime, others a misdemeanor, others legal. Depends where you are.

[aliencreature]

yeah you're both underage so no biggie. even if you were 16 and he was 18 and you wanted to fuck thats still legal in most states. (sometimes depending on if you had a preexisting relationship before he turned 18)

[dogbert444]

Why is it illegal? If there is no sex, then how can it be illegal?

A date: Guy asks girl, "Shall be meet for a coffee?"

Girl replies, "OK".

That is a date!! What's illegal?

[dogbert444]

I meant, "Shall we meet..."

Further thoughts, why this obsession with 18? If it is pure dating, i. e. setting a time and date to meet for something innocent, why again is that illegal. What laws define dating? Can somebody quote?

[TyraMayes]

@OpinionOwner your girlfriends texting you

[Little_Too_Late]

No, because both of you are underage. If he or you were over 18 then yeah, it would be a problem.

[MyUsernameRules]

You should focus on school right now rather than dating 16 year old boys.

[BackInGame]

LOL. Girls focus on getting everything for free and chasing hot guys.

[GingerBear]

@BackInGame is literally the most bitter guy on this site xD

[Bards]

@GingerBear

1st him
2nd is Roostah
3rd AlienCreature
4th Aleon something something

I don't know about the rest, can't remember atm

[BellePepper]

@Bards ROTFLMAO

[goflipaburger]

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[micheal727jovanie]

if he's not 18 then no depending on what country you live in. I live the USA were people get their salads tossed for messing with little girls.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

He is age of consent and your not but you need to check on the laws where you live and ask mom / dad/ guardian for their advice as well ,

[dolphiny]

no i don't see how that would be against the law at that age lol. if he were 18 it'd be different but for now you're alset

[Bards]

Its not illegal but jeez 14 dating 16? How moronic.

[dogbert444]

She's dating a guy for his personality, not his age.

[Bards]

@dogbert444 I don't give a shit, its inappropriate

[dogbert444]

LOL!! Two years? Dating when two years difference? Not like they're going to jump in the sack!! Hell's teeth!! What if they belong to the same club or organisation? What if they walk to school together?

[Bards]

@dogbert444 16 and 14 yr olds do not have the same mental maturity. Jump in the sack? a lot of kids have sex prematurely, so yes its very possible they might. Whether they are in the same club or school is irrelevant.

[dogbert444]

Whatever you and I say isn't going to stop it. Sadly, with strict attitudes like you have, things are more likely to go wrong! My sister and I had very open parents. Nothing was forbidden, but we were given the info and the tools to make our own judgments. I did not start dating until I was 17, and my sister started a few weeks ago at 21. Things may well have been different if our parents had been like you.

[Bards]

@dogbert444 I'm aware whatever I say won't stop people. Being strict is a good thing because it stops people from doing dumb shit sometimes. Being strict is great within moderation and it depends on how you deal with your children in general. Not all kids get stupid and lash out when they are told not to do something because they know the consequences of their actions and thats its not worth the risk. there's always time for relationships and sex. Just because you feel like it doesn't mean its a good idea. Children shouldn't have sex. Thats a fact. And 14 is too young to date. Thats common sense.

[dogbert444]

We are talking about dating, NOT sex!!

[Bards]

@dogbert444 sex can very much happen while dating. 16 yr old boys want sex and can very possibly pressure a 14 yr old girl into engaging it in.

[dogbert444]

End of argument. I've moved on...

[Bards]

@dogbert444 Woohoo 🙌

[dogbert444]

Maybe not. Read this. This is what prohibition does!!

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1699227-i-feel-like-i-am-supposed-to-supress-my-sexuality

QUOTES:

"My parents won't talk about it, my friends won't talk about it and in general nobody would talk about it! . It made me even more intrigriued about sex, and I had only one resort, to talk to guys."

"Shouldn't we embrace our sexuality?"

You are NEVER going to legislate about peoples feelings!! You think YOU can? Be a feckin' realist.

[Bards]

@dogbert444 Asnwering Machine: Hey Bards here! I'm busy not giving a fuck because I'm celibate. Hahhaha get it? Leave a message at the Beeeppp. *beeps*

[HandsomeRaj]

No it isn't illegal to date someone older than you :) especially since you are from the US :)

[GingerBear]

Provided you don't have sex, it's legal. You both need to be over the age of consent to have sex.

[R3d_Anonymous]

In my state that would be legal. You have to check with your state.

[Anonymous]

Yes if sex were to occur it would be considered statutory rape in many states here in the United States of America

[Opinion Owner]

Also if nude pics were sent by either one of you you could be charged with child pornagraphy no matter how old you are.

[adamski24]

You're going to the chair for that.
No it's fine it's not illegal to date someone off 2 years diffents

[BackInGame]

Not sure. I know many girl who are 14-16 and they fuck 25+yo guys, up to 32 yo.

[Anonymous]

No, but when he's 18, you'll be 16, that'll be illegal

[justbanANNAz]

nope, ur both still minors.

[FreyaDiermayr]

no? xD it might be once you're 16 and he's 18

[Marstalk]

Probably not but it depends on State and Country.

[Anonymous]

No but having sex would be. Unless your in spain

[chrisbigman]

Yes, it is.

[The_professor]

u just a baby

[goflipaburger]

Agreed! +1 :)