Why do hot girls often date ugly or fat guys (or both)?

[Anonymous]

My photo is below and most people tell me I'm good looking (I agree.). Most of these girls aren't dating good looking guys. Is this due to their low self-esteem? Is it their money? What gives?

I just hate seeing fat, slobby looking men with hot chicks. I also hate seeing dog ugly dudes with these same girls.

[crystaaal]

I'm not going to try to sugar coat anything, maybe its because its the inside that matters? Has it ever occured to you that these hot girls are sick and tired of good looking guys who think they can get any girl because of their looks. I'm not gonna lie either, I personally hate douche bags no matter how good looking they are. I find that these 'dog looking dudes' have the sweetest and honest hearts out there. Also, you what gives you the right to say they have low self-esteem, these people listen the most and understands others than focus on superficial things like good looks.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

fuck you shallow bitch! The outside is what is on the inside, you're just dumb and easily fooled by fucking mind games you and men play on yourself

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

sucking fat cock is pretty shallow, you're not proving anything against real men just that obviously you're not a real woman. Go back to dating lard you cum dumpster!

[SonicRiver]

It is because they are well rounded individuals, they treat us well and are usually smart. At least for me this is why. Plus guys with a little extra weight are so fun to snuggle with. I find my boyfriend so attractive physically because he is really smart, caring to me and others, honest and mature.

I don't care that he has some extra weight on him, it makes me feel smaller and there is more of him to hug. ☺️

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

bullshit, you just like simps because somehow you connected real masculine men to the pussy founder fat fucks who made the religions that oppress women, don't blame us real men on the actions of what fat fucks made. Trumps is a fat mysogonist just like religions, but you don't see feminists hating that and they are submissive in bed to fuck fucks just like in the times of Rome, feminism gave you equality but the first thing you did was hate on masculine men. What a fucking whore. You will hit the wall while masculine men prevail in 10 years while you are left with a fat fuck and sentiment.

[Anonymous]

It may sound shocking, but I don't care that much if a guy is attractive or not. I've rejected objectively good-looking guys because I didn't think we would manage to get along together.
As for your appearance, you are objectively good-looking, but the things you said in your question, don't make you appealing at all, on contrary.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

ppffff go fuck yourself sensitive bitch

[Bandit74]

1. girls often prefer to be the better looking one in the relationship

2. Girls often assume attractive guys are arrogant and not loyal

3. I can almost garantee they dont hook up with those fat guys or sleep sith them on the first date. Girls are more likely to hook up with attractive guys, but when they want a relationship/want a guy to raise a family with they are often willing to lower their standards on looks if the guy is willing to romance her and has the personality traits that would make him a good father/husband.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

1. Both people should do their best, petty dominance over a pussy man isn't a relation ship, that's disloyalty and petty dominance over a weak man, that doesn't make a better woman, that makes her a stupid insecure bitch.

2. Girls are sure as hell not loyal even when men were empowered, most people aren't, most people aren't fit but somehow fat guys don't get much backlash and get defended by women, yet fat guys are the ones with unfair standards getting more than deserved but masculine people get shit because they hurt your feelings, problem is feelings matter more to women than a collective of buetifal people, probably because your dad was a cunt of a whore who failed to raise you dumb bitch.

3. Yeah, they don't they trust a fuck boy and act stupid and assume every guy is that way when unlike girls, guys aren't by nature groupies and since girls are, if there are any who aren't dumb like you, they can't be vocal because you will shame them and the narrative doesn't want empowered women opposing it.

[Anonymous]

Where do you live cause i have never experienced this, i am a decent looking guy but i feel personally the way i carry myself and personality is more off putting then my looks (introverted, awkward at times, quiet) it takes me awhile to build up rapport with women and when i do it usually lands me in the friend zone or the unfuckeable zone with most, so i kind of have the opposite problem, only overweight, unattractive chicks show any obvious interest in me lol.

[Prettygurl12]

Not sure about other guys... but I sure as hell know why they're not dating YOU.

I saw your picture. I thought you were attractive. Then I read what you wrote and was like, "Wow. Never mind. I'm staying the fuck away from him!" You radiate bitter douche like nobody's business.

[medical2523]

Well I have the same issue

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

why? Cause he has standards and a disgust for girls who validate fat fags who don't work as hard as him but get laid? Being fit takes more effort and drive and admirable personality traits than some fucking piggy who plays nice guy does. Do you realize how many fat guys are fake and play nice guy before they also fuck you over including fat guys? He is at least honest unlike your cunt self that only thinks emotionally and not logically, which doesn't help civilizations at all.

[JessikaSky]

Possibly because you come of pretty nasty and jerk like, I'd much rather someone lacking in the looks department who has a heart of gold, then someone with looks who knows they look good, you just get cockiness. Not all guys, but a good majority have been that way that I've known and even had the chance to be friends with.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

heart of gold is some fake imaginary fairytale bullshit stupid wannabee pixie cock licking Disney fag princesses like yourself believe in, go back to be a basic validation whore, want forgiveness get religion and go bitch to your friends on social media to repair your fragile ego too while you're at it to reinforce my point.

[Homicidal_Queen]

Well maybe cause girls aren't shallow assholes all the time. Yes there are women who are but maybe they love the person they are with for who they are. it could be for money but you're not apart of the relationship and you shouldn't give a fuck who someone is dating or not. don't be a shallow ass and find someone with whom you connect with emotionally and spiritually.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

if you fuck a fat guy over a fit guy who is clearly ambitious, you are the fucking shallow one, everyone is materialistic in some way, only difference is a fat guy cock sucker is a more shallow materialist.

[timmy111]

2 schools of thought..
1 They have confidence/assertiveness/charisma and the women are drawn to them ( prob a dynamo in bed too )
2 These men are the total opposite ( but have money ) and the women are low quality and using them

[timmy111]

You could look like brad pitt, if your weak and a total douche, your not getting laid, ask any of the girls on gag

[QueenNini]

Well you are good looking and very much attractive, but you sound rude and that's probably why they don't come after you. I wouldn't go for a guy that says things like that. Maybe you should stop being so judgmental😉.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

go fuck yourself, I'll show you rude whore.

[Bluemax]

I haven't noticed too many "hot chicks" dating "fat, slobby looking men."

Never mind the others. Why do you think women aren't dating you?

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Money plays a big role, that's regardless of how the guy looks.

Women are also far less visual than men. Men put a large focus on looks.

[genericname85]

because looking for a "hot" partner is the wrong way of doing it anyway. some girls have the awesome ability to look past what you physically look like. guys usually don´t.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

yeah, and they still get fuck over and ran through and live in regret, except now it's by stupid and ugly men. Great Job fucking simp, you're not helping feminist's at all yet play nice guy, how ironic, fuck you.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

fuck you jew

[genericname85]

lol i'm neither a feminist nor am i a jew but at least i know that you're a moron now :D

[genericname85]

@no8o8o8o8o8o8o i'm also not a "nice guy". but i'm not retarded enough to think that telling some dude online "fuck you" has any impact other than showing that guy that i'm an emotionally instable little kid

[marinadiamond]

you're not really that attractive tbh

(this is coming from a girl who has been approach to model)

[AngryHorny]

The trouble with most guys is that they can't approach girls. If you are un ugly guy but have the balls to approach girls you will get dates.

[Asker]

Lol you're stuck in the eighth grade, aren't you? Most adult women could care less if a guy approaches them or not.

[AngryHorny]

Why? You get a lot of them approaching you?

[Anonymous]

"I just hate seeing fat, slobby looking men with hot chicks. I also hate seeing dog ugly dudes with these same girls."

Girls have that 6th sense. They can probably sense your bitterness beneath that fake smile

[Anonymous]

it's deffo low self-esteem n they don't want to date a guy that is better looking then them... so they go for average or ugly guys. n hot guys will usually cheat on their girl lol so they don't want that happening to them

[Folklore]

Hate the game, not the player.

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

this game sucks, lets make one called shoot the fat fucks who fuck hot girls and burn their assholes with torches until they bleed to death.

[JackTyler]

Why does it matter anyway?

[no8o8o8o8o8o8o]

a fuck cunt putting his cock into a woman's pussy to be irreversibly marked for life physically and mentally while claiming real men are bad and giving away her beauty while this happens collectively and strong men are being bred out of a society and forced to share beauty with the embodiment of fat excuses for corpses that fuck bitches and pray on our society parasitically taking away it's value every time they fuck and taking pride in ruining our society while the women end up damaged and broken and fuck up mentally with physical health issues, all because a fat ass couldn't stay in his lane and pumped his processed food poisoning shit semen into a hot girls pussy and just made new shitty kids into a future society. So does it matter, yes. Fuck you die motherfucker.