Me and this guy were having a good convo then he asked me to kiss him and I said I don't know and then after a while he said he didn't wanna talk to me anymore, Here's how the Convo went. He said he "if I get a good mark can you kiss me" I said I don't know then he said "aw your shy that's cute" then he's like my mission is to make you a confident girl" and I said "that's going to be hard" then he said "idk if this is going to work. I don't know if our personalities mesh it's kinda awkward" the thing is I feel like he doesn't wanna talk because I told him I don't know if I wanted to kiss him. Because in the bringing of our
convo today he said "hey, I miss you" but apparently now he doesn't wanna talk? for some reason I feel really sad, I don't know why like every guy I talk too is always like that, I just feel bad for myself, I don't get why guys always seem to hate me or not talk to me. Especially because I don't wanna do anything sexual or making out... etc (I think that's why) here's a pic of our convo, what do you think made him not wanna talk to me anymore ):
It means that you shut the proverbial door on him after his little "life coach" game didn't work as intended. Which is good because this conversation reeks of a dude trying desperately to hook up with you by any means necessary.
Drop this one and walk away. Trust me, I've ran that game before when I was younger and dumber. It ain't worth the effort to puzzle it out to its logical extreme. The guy wants to have sex with you, not date you.
You're 24, and though I don't know what the guy's age is, I'll bet dollars to doughnuts that he's banking on you still being insecure as you might have been in years past. This is what's known as the Aladdin Special, the "I can show you the world..." bullshit that a scumbag guy or girl can pull with a less experienced mark for the purposes of bending that person to your line of thinking.
Its pretty scummy behavior but it happens. Fuck that dude (not literally) and move along.
Yeah, he's hunting for college girls with loose morals and eager to experiment. Again, leave this one alone and shut him down hard if he brings it up again.
He's also in college but we go to different colleges and okay yeah I'll ignore him that's the best thing to do and thanks for the advice that made me feel a bit better because I thought it was just me (something wrong with me)
Okay I will, I think I should stop using apps to meet people, I met him online by the way but we did hangout once. Cause everyone I meet online always turns out like that. But then at the same time I'm kinda shy to approach guys at school and talk to them but if they start the convo I have no problem talking to them
Well, he very well may like you and have in interest in a relationship with you, but he probably also wants to have a physical side to that. And you've signaled a lack of interest in him sexually which may make a relationship with you a dealbreaker for him. If you don't like this guy, you shouldn't feel bad that he's moving on. If you DO like this guy, you should ask why you don't want to get physical with him.
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