Why are white women so obsessed with black men?

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Besides the fact that white women are so obsessed with d! ck sizes. 

My theory is it's the result of the glamorization of hip hop culture and the portrayal of black men as strong, macho and tough and the criminal aspect witch turns on said white women.

And anyone who dares critisize the white woman is a "insecure little boy with a small penis" who needs to "man up".

Im not trying to be racist nor am I trying to say that black men are bad but what I am saying is there is too much of an obsession with black men these days as a matter of fact women expect all men to be like black men.

And by definition racism is "the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races." therefore viewing black men as superior to other men is inherantly racist or any race for that matter.

How would you feel if you were made to feel like you are not good enough because of the colour of your skin?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am a white woman who has never dated a black man. Do I find them attractive? Damn straight I do! However, I am attracted to men regardless of skin tones or ethnicities.
However, your above statement: "And anyone who dares criticize the white woman is a "insecure little boy with a small penis"... Well I hate to even say this but anyone who criticizes a man OR a woman because you don't like or understand their preferences is simply setting yourself up for failure.
If you liked women with blonde hair and blue eyes and someone was to say "You only like blondes cause they're easy. You need to step up and want a real woman" your instant reaction would be to lash out and act out of anger because they are judging your preferences.
Don't judge others if you don't want to be judged. Its that simple. There's plenty of women out there who's preference is white men, instead of black men. So instead of focusing on the women who don't want you because of the preferences, go out and find someone else. Its quite simple.

NiggersAreStupid · Accepted Answer

It's actually the other way around, black men are obsessed with black men. You're a black male trying to give validity to this nonsense that "white women are obsessed with black men", which is totally untrue. This is what black males want, because they're the one's obsessed with white women, and hence it would make it easier for them to get white women if white women were obsessed with them.

Barnone · Accepted Answer

I'm white and I have no attraction ( yet ) to any black man. I'm also educated enough to know penis size and race have no correlation.

I will add if I do find myself attracted to a black man it would be for more than just the color of his skin.

BradyLames · Accepted Answer

I thought about this and I think there are a few reasons...

1. Pity and Guilt... American white women in particular feel a great guilt and pity for blacks in general due to the racism that happened ages ago...

A way to deal with this is to date a black so that in the back of her mind she is doing something to amend the past injustices

2. Daddy issues... This one is talked about the most, but it is proven that women who have outstanding issues with their fathers will make dating choices accordingly. Dating the bad apple of society is a way to either mock their father or a way to gain esteem.

3. Lack of options... Sometimes overweight or unattractive women get tired of being alone and will date whoever they can get.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As a black man, white women who are crazy about black guys do it to make up for their white guilt, entitlement and privilege. I also hate the way they pretend to care about Ferguson and the black lives matter movement. Now I'm not saying this is true for all white women, but that's just how they have been in my experiences.

11bangCity · Answer

This is in my opinion one of the most outlandish and volatile situation the world has ever encountered considering race. I like to write facts and not theory on your ignorant question. First off I'd like to say that over 90% of white women are not interested in a black partner. Stats don't lie. Second is that you probably watch way too much pornographic material which is inherently toxic, racist, ignorance based, taboo, incest, etc. Be yourself and be a human being. This entire Race ordeal is absolutely out of control. 3rd is that black males were introduced to sports as a way to try and build them up into our Society. Give black culture incentives to just build them up and not knock them down which is the biggest lie ever. 4th is that athletic abilities and talent across all sports worldwide have 0 race specific dominance. That's another ridiculous ideology. There are millions of white men that would absolutely stomp a black male athletically, competitively in every aspect... and have a bigger penis than a black male... And Vice Versa... Catch my drift? 1-1 is 0. It cancels out. We are humans and this Race bs is absolutely politically driven total bs revolving around Currency $ and thats it. Anyone too ignorant to see just how ridiculous it is has no business here asking dumb questions and needs to start thinking for themselves and educate yourself based on numerous sources and not whatever bs propaganda sht you may see on the internet or TV.. My answer to your question is very simple.. You have a brain (USE IT) or mindlessly follow in the path of the COWARD.

Anonymous · Answer

IT ENTIRELY DEPENDS ON THE INDIVIDUAL. They are guys from other races who clearly fit the stereotype description you have presented.

I personally have had a lot of best-friends who are Black. What you said is entirely wrong. It depends on the guy. One of my black friends in the whole black group , was the only guy who could get any girl because he was nice, beautiful smile, funny and confident.

The other black guys in the group I was with, couldn't get any girls attention because they were too cocky, not attractive, rude and serious.

So they were jealous of that one black guy in their group.

It boils down to the INDIVIDUAL REGARDLESS OF RACE.

If a guy is having trouble getting a lot of women, either :

1) He is unattractive.

2) Socially awkward/too shy in social situations

3) Too cocky/serious.

4) Not confident/ no sense of humour.

So learn to be attractive for who you are. Good luck.

madhatters4 · Answer

My theory is it's the result of the glamorization of hip hop culture and the portrayal of black men as strong, macho and tough and the criminal aspect witch turns on said white women."

I think your theory is wrong. white women were into black women before rap music so... yea

general speaking white women are NOT obsessed with black men. the statistics on dating and partnership would attest to that

GreatnessPersonified · Answer

You watch too much TV. Stop believing everything you see on the idiot box. What you are saying is not true.

"How would you feel if you were made to feel like you are not good enough because of the colour of your skin?"

I'm a black man, so.. 24.media.tumblr.com/...m8gon1ZjWG1qfrkf9o1_500.gif

JustAnotheGuy · Answer

People want things that are different (no pun intended). A lot of white girls go to schools with a white majority, so of course black guys are going to stick out. In my experience however, I haven't seen a lot of interracial marriages that work out between a black man and a white woman.

FakeName123 · Answer

Yet they prefer to respond to pretty much all other ethnicities over black men.

ZiiTheMant · Answer

"How would you feel if you were made to feel like you are not good enough because of the colour of your skin?" LOL, are you serious? That's Black people struggles on an everyday basis!! It's systematic racism and what Black people deals with on an everyday basis. People being afraid to talk to you, walk down the same sidewalk as you, not getting hired for jobs because your race, judging and stereotyping you based on your color. Others telling Black people that you're "too dark", "too ugly" and making racist jokes based on their skin. I can't believe you just said that LOL

Berethor · Answer

Black man are manly? that maybe true, but there is not denying that white guys generally looking good, and if you combine it with a strong body, you are getting an super saiyan results. :)

Prof_Don · Answer

The ones that are, are because of hip hop culture exploding in popularity and rapper-types coming off as bad boys. P. S. I'm a black guy.

greasyboy · Answer

Generally speaking, I think it comes down to the fact that white women are more feminine than black women and black men are more masculine than white men. Many black women are obese and have bad hair while white women have pretty hair and more money to spend on their appearance. Black men seem to care more about their bodies and their hair is more accepted than that of black women.

jjmarvin · Answer

Why are x color of x gender so obsessed with y color of y gender? I'm so salty! Waah! Seriously. This is what gag sounds like to me now. And every color and every gender does it.

tony72722 · Answer

I've never really witnessed this.. AT ALL. I feel pretty blessed to be a white man.

tenchu11 · Answer

Like why are black girls obsessed with dating white men?

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i see your point and i agree that the images in the media influence us but i don't think it's that common. i managed to grow up in america and not find whites, blacks, arabs or latinos attractive and therefore didn't date them.

canadianLAD · Answer

who? like the 1 percent who live in the hood or think its cool to do so?

thisdudejimmy · Answer

Really? Did you really just ask that?  Wow... so what if they like black guys anyways find one whos doesn't then lol

MyUsernameRules · Answer

Why are white men so "obsessed" with Asian women? It's okay for white men to date many women outside their race but if a white woman wants to date a black man, that makes her "obsessed"?

Jockdoc2023 · Answer

Even black men despise stereotype and feel they can’t live up to alpha male image and are treated like meat not a person

Anonymous · Answer

Coz we do em good behind closed doors.. We got that rythm (fact)

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

tl;dr once you go black, you never go back.

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