My theory is it's the result of the glamorization of hip hop culture and the portrayal of black men as strong, macho and tough and the criminal aspect witch turns on said white women.
And anyone who dares critisize the white woman is a "insecure little boy with a small penis" who needs to "man up".
Im not trying to be racist nor am I trying to say that black men are bad but what I am saying is there is too much of an obsession with black men these days as a matter of fact women expect all men to be like black men.
And by definition racism is "the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races." therefore viewing black men as superior to other men is inherantly racist or any race for that matter.
How would you feel if you were made to feel like you are not good enough because of the colour of your skin?
Most Helpful Girl
I am a white woman who has never dated a black man. Do I find them attractive? Damn straight I do! However, I am attracted to men regardless of skin tones or ethnicities.
However, your above statement: "And anyone who dares criticize the white woman is a "insecure little boy with a small penis"... Well I hate to even say this but anyone who criticizes a man OR a woman because you don't like or understand their preferences is simply setting yourself up for failure.
If you liked women with blonde hair and blue eyes and someone was to say "You only like blondes cause they're easy. You need to step up and want a real woman" your instant reaction would be to lash out and act out of anger because they are judging your preferences.
Don't judge others if you don't want to be judged. Its that simple. There's plenty of women out there who's preference is white men, instead of black men. So instead of focusing on the women who don't want you because of the preferences, go out and find someone else. Its quite simple.1
Most Helpful Guy
As a black man, white women who are crazy about black guys do it to make up for their white guilt, entitlement and privilege. I also hate the way they pretend to care about Ferguson and the black lives matter movement. Now I'm not saying this is true for all white women, but that's just how they have been in my experiences.3