Why are some white women obsessed with black men?

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with preferences but some of them just make it weird. My GF’s boss is a white lady who is otherwise totally normal and professional but she has 2 kids with 2 different black baby dads. She also saw her black coworker’s fully black baby and was fawning over it like crazy when she’s seen other peoples white kids and babies and didn’t do all that and barely cared.

There was also a mixed black and white guy working there who attracted the attention of several seemingly normal white girls. One of them was a high schooler and despite having a boyfriend was openly crushing on him. Another 17 year old basic white girl fell for him and they actually started dating even though he’s 20 something. No one bats an eye even though she’s technically a minor and he’s an adult.

Like I said nothing wrong with dating outside your race but some of these white girls are obsessed with black or mixed guys and having their kids. Just seems odd.

[Anonymous]

Starts and ends with fetishizing. Black men have high levels of fetishizing white women because of their proximity to whiteness. White women have high levels of envy towards black and mixed race women and their appearance. A lot of interracial couples with white woman black man are built on this unhealthy dynamic. Especially black men who refuse to date black women and white women who make themselves look more “black” to find a black man. Both mentally disturbed.

Now, I’m not against interracial relationships. My dad’s white and my mom’s black. But there is such a stark difference in having a black mom vs a white mom. There’s even a tiktok trend on it. All I can say is good riddance. Let these self hating people run eachother into the ground.

[Asker]

I have also heard the white mom is recipe for disaster but the black mom with white dad is better. I heard from a mixed girl that her white mom used to make her scrub her nipples in the shower until they were pink and raw because she thought they were dirty if they were brown 🤢🤢.

I don’t know why it seems like black guys go for trashy white girls and white guys respect classy black women.

[DizzyDesii]

Dick size, mixed babies, or trying to make their dads/exes mad

[DizzyDesii]

Basically fetishizing

[Asker]

That makes sense it seems like a fetish but there’s almost no stigma around it like all the other women at her work don’t bat an eye. Even on this post I get accused of caring too much about race just for noticing obvious fetishizing.

[sdjaks]

You call their preferences weird. Well maybe those people think the same thing about you and your preferences.
Also beauty is subjective. I personally have never thought Ryan Gosling was good looking.

[Asker]

Well I tried to make it clear that preference itself isn’t weird but getting to the fetishizing level seems weird.

[sdjaks]

Some people just may think having mixed race or biracial babies makes people physically look more unique.

[Anonymous]

Why are you so obsessed with race? I mean you’re the one drawing those lines and connections.

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s all just a coincidence…

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes it really is.

[Asker]

So she just so happened to get pregnant to two black guys back to back purely for the content of their character and only liked seeing the black baby just because she happened to like it… gee-whiz I bet that’s 100% true and she sees us as all one race the human race…

[Opinion Owner]

The sarcasm is super unnecessary just because I don’t agree. Yes, it can be a coincidence.

[Asker]

Sorry girl I’m fluent in sarcasm 😝😝😝😝

[Sweety_Torneeya]

The colour the physic and personality.

They found them attractive and sexy.

[Asker]

Do you?

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Yeah offcourse

[Luv2FukNCum]

Black guys have enormous dicks. They are amazing in bed too.

[Asker]

Understandable but why go as far to have their kid over it? And how does a normal high school girl end up wanting to cheat on her white boyfriend over that?

[Altheavas]

Maybe by majority, but the biggest I had was from a white man.

[Apple1996]

Black men have better personalities

[Asker]

Then why didn’t you marry one?

[Apple1996]

I did lol

[Asker]

Makes sense I guess since you're a PAWG