Why are black men obsessed with white women?

[Anonymous]

I get that they are hot but it seems like they associate them with being successful, like they need a white woman to be seen as successful... am i the only one who noticed this? White women are being sexualised way too much.

It's definitely not good that they think that way.

[lord_chilled]

Many men of minortity groups like white women and sometimes prefer them over their own. This is because white europeans have dominated most of the world in recent history and to minorities, white is still a status symbol. For some non whites, the closer they are to white, the more they feel on top, having white friends, having a white woman/man makes them feel closer to the top/success.
Even tough, we no longer live in a white dominated world, some form of eurocentricism still prevails and therefore there will be individuals of minority races including black people who will want white partners. As with most other races, for black people too, its less frowned upon for men to date outside their race than for their women. so they will try to get with a white girl for status. Some developed a fetish for it maybe. However you are wrong to think every black guy is like that. Most people of all races are mostly attracted to their own race, so most black men prefer to date and marry black women. If you dont believe it , you can look up the statistics. The few ones you see who date outside, either fell in love, have a fetish, or like i said, have this inner white - superiority mentality... But thats not the norm

[madhatters4]

the vast vast majority of black men still primarily date and or marry black women. so i don't really know how we can say black men are obsessed with white women

but those black men who are (which is how it should be stated since not all black men are obsessed or even like white women) may just find them attractive, there may be some perceived or subconscious boon to dating a white woman, or perhaps it's fetish

the reality is there are people of all races who are obsessed wtih someone for whatever reason. whether it's good or bad depends on the reason...

[Asker]

Well i think most have a fetish which is bad but it's okay if you like someone for who they are and not their skin colour

[madhatters4]

do you know most black men to make an assertion like that?

[Asker]

Dude, i'm being real, i'm not being politically correct. All of the black friends i have, all of the black men i know are like this. Some might not be like this but most are. I'm just being real.

[madhatters4]

being real is dealing with reality. if you don't know most black people then you can't say most black people... and that would be being real

[Asker]

Your trying to be politically correct, just stop. I don't want to argue with you, it's clear most black men are like this.

[samhradh_leannan]

He's not trying to be politically correct, he's trying to explain that you can't generalize an entire group based on just a few people. No matter what group you are talking about.

[samhradh_leannan]

(I mean, not to speak for you, maybe you are also trying to be politically correct lol.)

[madhatters4]

if politically correct is being actually correct then yes you can say i'm being politically correct if that makes you feel better about being wrong.

to say most black peopel think something based on what you see in your friends is not correct in any way shape or form. and suggesting that it is wrong to assume something about billions of people based on your interactions with maybe a dozen isn't politically correct it's just correct

[madhatters4]

@samhradh_leannan i wrote my response before i saw you had posted so i was not responding to you... but no i wasn't trying to be politically correct. you have it 100% correct

[Asker]

So you are disagreeing with what i'm saying? be truthful.

[madhatters4]

yes i disagree that black men are obsessed with white women. i already said as much in my first response

reminder:
"the vast vast majority of black men still primarily date and or marry black women. so i don't really know how we can say black men are obsessed with white women"

[Asker]

Maybe i should rephrase my question then, do you think black men in the west are obsessed with white women, it's understandable that black men in Africa or elsewhere are with black women

[madhatters4]

no they are not. again the vast vast majority of black men in the west date, marry, have sex with, etc black women.

there are black men obsessed with white women. just like there are white women obsessed with black men, Asian women obsessed with white men, and on and on and on. but no race of people as a whole in any place are obsessed with a race. it's about the individual

[Asker]

I never said all black men were, i said most in my view are. I see it online mostly and with these rappers.

[Asker]

Like on youtube comments, if a white women posts something i almost always see a black man reply saying something regarding black men and white women and sex

[Asker]

or how she wants him because he is black

[madhatters4]

and? without knowing the some 42million or so black men in america you can't make any assertions about what black men feel or think

[madhatters4]

i can read a yahoo article about race and invariably find some white person espousing racism. does that men white men are racist?

[Asker]

If i see this happening online, and often, there has to be a large amount of black men who think like this.

[Asker]

I never said all black men do this, you keep assuming i said that.

[madhatters4]

then who are the they you are talking about?
how about you just talk about the people you specifically know rather than trying to ascribe characteristics to people you don't know? that is the easiest way to live life. know what you know and don't claim to know what you don't know

[Asker]

I can't be bothered to talk to you, i said i didn't want to argue.

[madhatters4]

it's disappointing that despite all the truth i can give you nothing changes your mind.

[Asker]

What your saying could be the truth but i'm just saying that i personally haven't seen it like you

[madhatters4]

Thanks for MHO

[Asker]

I didn't give you it

[Asker]

Your a hacker

[madhatters4]

well then the site gave it to me... so i retract my thank you

[Asker]

No your a hacker, you've done this over 10 times now

[Asker]

Reported you

[madhatters4]

have fun with that

[HisFreak]

I think part of the reason is because they want to throw it in the white man's face that they were able to get a white woman.

[Asker]

Lol i don't see the point, that's not only objectifying snd disgusting for white women since they are basically being used but it's also just plain stupid in my opinion.

[HisFreak]

To each his own sweetie

[Asker]

Yeah i guess so

[ChillWhiteGuy]

white men attract east Asian women more than black men attract white women, though..

sometimes east Asian women are more attractive than a white women. so it's no loss of sleep for most white men.

[Starrk]

Are they?

Last time I check, most black men date black women, marry black women and have kids with black women. So where is this "obsession" you speak of coming from.

Have it ever occurred to you that maybe the black men who like white women simply stand out more in your eyes as opposed to the millions of black men who like black women.

[Asker]

In the west

[Starrk]

Are you saying "west" as in Western countries or Western United States?

[Asker]

Western countries

[Starrk]

Well even in most (if not all) western countries majority of the black men still date, marry and have kids with black women.

I still have not seen this obsession that you speak of.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

It's not obsession but maybe curiosity because it's probably something different from what they've tried before in the topic of women.

I've dated multiple races throughout my life and I didn't care what race she was just if she was hot and had a great personality with a good heart.

[Anonymous]

I've heard from a number of my male black friends is that it's because a lot of white women are dirty like taking it up the ass, sucking on his junk after, things like that. I've noticed that in poem as well. A lot of women of color don't play that game, some do but not from what I see compared to white women. If she's got a big ass even better.

[Asker]

Lol what, they've been watching too much porn

[Asker]

You know porn is not like real life at all, right?

[Opinion Owner]

Lol really you're actually asking me that

[Asker]

You just said you've seen it in porn, just because you've seen it in porn means nothing

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I've seen it, doesn't mean I believe that's how sex is. What I'm saying is that the fact that white girls are willing to do things like that in porn tells you how dirty a lot of them are.

[Asker]

It doesn't prove anything about them lol. it's porn. It's not even just white girls, all girls in porn do dirty things

[MrOwl]

It's preference, there are still tons of black men who go after black women.

You're just racist, you feel like a black man shouldn't be with a white woman.

[Asker]

How am i racist lmao, tell me what i said that correlated to racism? I feel like black men who fetishise white women aka most of them shouldn't be with them.

[MrOwl]

So the fuck what?
There's fetishes for all races by every single race.
Asian fetish
Latina fetish
Black fetish
White fetish
Etc.
You chose to single out blacks for getting with white women out of attraction.
For that, you're racist.

[Asker]

How am i racist. This question was towards White women being fetishised, not anyone else. I agree that some other races are fetishised but yeah that's not my question.

I think you need to really fix up. You and everyone like you are the reason why racism isn't taken seriously, you like to call anyone and everyone racist if they don't agree with you.

[Asker]

Like seriously man, you are everyone else like you are the reason why racism still exists.

[MrOwl]

But why do you single out blacks?
And so what if white women get sexualized by black men, how is that YOUR problem?

[Asker]

I'm not singling out blacks, i asked a question which happened to mostly concern black men, although other races do do it too.

That's my problem because it's not good to sexualise anyone. that's when problems and issues arise.

[Asker]

Plus is respect women and i don't like people who sexualise them

[Asker]

i****

[MrOwl]

Racist white knight

[Asker]

lmao your a butthurt black guy, i know, it's cool. Just because i respect women doesn't make me a white knight

[MrOwl]

Yes it does, this is why your only options are fat sjws

[Asker]

Whatever man.

[DonkeyRick69]

I don't think they are. I think like most men they are increased with hot women

[Stoner710]

They don't discriminate women are women men are men and white women give it up more easily then blacks women

[Asker]

i don't think that's the main reason but who knows

[Stoner710]

Meh it's a guess. I know my brother likes black women more then white women my family is mixed raced mom married a black guy in the 70s and had 2 kids with him they divorced met my dad in the 80s and I was adopted in the mid 90s

[Anonymous]

I don't know about obsessed. But I think a lot of black men are sick of black women's attitude.

[Asker]

But why? I think a lot of them are nice, it's just some of them are bad since they came up from a bad environment

[Opinion Owner]

and some of them are just bitchy because they choose to be that way.

[Asker]

It's mostly due to their environment they grow up in, i get what you mean though

[Asker]

Most of them are nice though

[Opinion Owner]

I know a few without the attitude. But mostly they bring it on themselves. Why do you care if black men like white women? what is it to you?

[Asker]

I just don't like when people fetishise someone else

[Opinion Owner]

Well that's their business

[ChillWhiteGuy]

why do we care? because it's destroying the white race.. didn't know that we had to be accepting of that.

[Sam19XX]

Well white women are looked up to by the majority of the men from all the races which is why they are at the top of the modeling/similar industriesz

[wittyuser]

I dont think that at all... its kinda personal for me I guess but FROM WHAT I've SEEN I find them to be a little more kind but I don't know maybe I've met the wrong people.

[Asker]

Most women are kind no matter what their colour is

[wittyuser]

I didn't mean it as a racial thing.. I'm saying this cuz I reread what I put a it seemed that way

[Anonymous]

Cause they can't handle a strong black woman.

From a white boyfriend of a strong black woman.

[Bigdaddyslim01]

Cultural history, having what used to be hard to get

[Asker]

The ones alive today never had it hard to get them lol they have just as much chance as everyone else.

[Bigdaddyslim01]

That's why I said history?

[Asker]

That makes no sense, it would make sense if it was the ones who were slaves but none of them are alive today or most of them aren't. I'm talking about the younger generation anyway

[Bigdaddyslim01]

I know, I mean they know their history, they always have that feeling that they have to prove themselves, and having the white girl is one of the things that show I'm the rare number

[Asker]

Lol that's stupid if that's true

[Bigdaddyslim01]

Many have that mentality, the rest love that black and white contrast or just love white girls like any other man

[Asker]

I think most of them do it not for love but just for a fetish

[Bigdaddyslim01]

Yes, I've mentioned it

[MikeBjergum]

Black men get a white 🚺 as a statice symbol. They tend to be players..

[MeatPuppet]

Probably for the same reasons some of us White men are obsessed with Asian women.

[luaghingsloth]

I don't know. Why are white guys obsessed with Asians XD

[Asker]

I don't think it's as bad as this

[Blitzkrieger]

they watch too much blacked. com.

[Asker]

lmao that website is dumb, i can't believe people watch that stuff

[CT_CD]

White women are the epitome of beauty

[Asker]

Some of them are lol, they still have ugly women just like other races

[it-left-a-stain]

They want to breed with the superior race

[Asker]

I don't get who you are calling superior but no one is superior

[KaydenChrist]

I notice that too. I think its a fetish thing

[JoyGirl]

You are very wrong.

[Asker]

Okay explain?

[Anonymous]

Because they're the hottest