I saw my friend's girlfriend on tinder?

[Anonymous]

I was swiping through tinder, and came upon my good friend's girlfriend of a year. I don't know what to make of it because I lived with him for a year, and know for a fact that he's been faithful to her. Of course I swiped right, but I carelessly forgot to screen shot it, and now I have no proof. Now I don't know what to do. I know that there's lots of people in college who go on tinder just to mess with people. Do I tell him or just let it go?

[kaylaS91]

I don't think you're obligated to tell him, but are free to do so depending on how their relationship dynamics are in general.
I had tinder for about a week or two, despite being in a relationship. I got it because I wanted to see what all the hype was about, and see what sorts of profiles guys from around my actual area would make for themselves. Purely out of curiosity, I wasn't interested in hooking up with any of them and said so in my profile on there before I removed it. So in other words, she's not necessarily cheating on him...

[Asker]

Well I've been hurt by girls like you. So many matchest I've gotten, only to find out it was just some girl messing with me. Think about how that affects a guy's confidence with women.

[kaylaS91]

lol 'girls like me'? Please don't tell me you go on Tinder in hopes of finding 'the one'. It's a hook-up site for the most-part. I wrote that I was looking just to chat at most on my profile, and would tell guys who did message me that I'm not interested so I see no wrong done.

[Asker]

Well at least you told them the truth. Most girls have just ignored me, or made me waste my time with them for hours on end, just for my attention.

[YueYue]

id arrange a coffee date with her and approach her first for answers, then inform her that the boyfriend knows but she needs to come clean ( and then tell your friend about what happened, and wait to see if she follows through in being honest to him )

[martyfellow]

She's likely just having fun. I sometimes make up profiles just to see the response, myself...
Let it be, it's nothing serious. Likely she told him...

[evenlift]

You should tell him definitely.

[TheGuyFromMiddleEast]

Just tell him, but lightly.

[apple24]

I would tell him.