Guy grabs butt on first date?

[Anonymous]

I went on a coffee date with a guy from Tinder and (my profile is I'm not into hookups at all) and we had a great conversation. As we said goodbye at my car, he leaned in for a kiss (which I wasn't expecting) and I pulled away pretty quickly. At the same time, he put his hand on my waist and then to my butt for a second. I WAS not comfortable with that at all. Is that something that is expected - cause I sure didn't expect it.

[bombamboum]

I wouldn't say that it's expected per say but it's not surprising. We just all have different boundaries to those things and for many people, it's okay.

[Hades77]

Um, that isn't ok. If you're not confortable, the don't let it happen again, simple. I don't trust the guy.

[Polocrew]

I mean I kinda would grabb too if its big and you are hot and well its tinder date.

[Anonymous]

poor guy has no game.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

yes.