I'm new to the dating scene, and I recently went on my first date, which was to the movies (although I now know it isn't considered a 'real date'). Anyhow, while we were watching the movie, he turned my face to kiss me. I playfully pretended to slap him and continued watching the movie. Both (him&the movie) finished the movie at the same time, and when he stood up to leave, so did his Jimmy Dean. He went to the bathroom to adjust himself and laughed it off, but I felt a bit embarrassed. What would you do? Would you continue to text him? He never send explicit picture like the other guys so I’m not 100% sure if he’s that type of guy.
If you think you were embarrassed, imagine how he might have felt. Anyway it's really just a sign that he has a healthy physical response to arousal. It's definitely not a bad thing.
I've always been a little envious of the opposite sex when it comes to this. You don't have to worry about something protruding from your groin when you get aroused in public. You should be more sensitive about this. It's not something he can control. It can be trigger by subtle intimate contact. Even hand holding with someone we're into can do it.
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Think back, have you been a little aroused by him? If so, and you had the same parts, you would have had a boner too.
Our arousal is a little more... noticeable.
ik it's weird your first times dealing with it but you get used to it. like they can't control so it's fine as they not being WEIRD about it like they're respecting boundaries. i usually laugh it off or don't mention it at all and take it as a compliment.
you'll get used to it and be comfortable dw it's completely normal
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Just horny and likes you. Sounds nice enough. Don’t read too much into it, if you like him too. All guys get erections. Not all send dick pics, especially unsolicited.
Ignore it, it’s just a natural response especially to a pretty girl that’s sitting right beside him 👍🙂
Sometimes the little head has a mind of its own. I would ignore it for now.
He was probably more embarrassed than you were. Unfortunately boners can happen randomly.
Hang your coat on it?
Its a sure sign of desperation.
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