So there is a girl who contacts me after first date, but won't set a definite second date 'cause she said she's busy. She keeps texting me random stuff, but I don't want to be her text buddy, I want to see her. Do u guys think she's worth the time, or should I move on?
Most Helpful Girl
Do you know anything about her job? I know with my job I can sometimes get my shifts very last minute so it is really hard to plan in advance, maybe she doesn't want to make a date then let you down?
I'd keep texting her for a while, it's a good sign she isn't just totally blanking you :)
Then if she still hasn't set a date in 2/3 weeks ask her outright, do you want another date or not, then at least you know!1
Most Helpful Guy
My guess is that she isn't really interested. Even if she was busy, if she really does like you then she would fit you in her schedule anyway bc she likes you that much. Obviously its not at that level. Kinda confusing tho why she keeps texting you. Maybe she is just flaky and you need to be more assertive. And the time you spend with her, make it count. Everyone is busy nowadays so the time you spend with her is valuable and you need to make a good impression on her quickly.1