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Believe it or not, I have tried both options. I was sort of getting into a different girl, but my crush got super jealous and showed a bunch of interest in me. It lasted about three days, the best three days ever, but she seems really committed to this guy who doesn't really like her back. On the other hand I have tried to get over her but it didn't really work that well. I was trying for around three months, but it sort of tore my life apart so I gave up eventually.
If she isn't willing to make a commitment to you, then you have to go no contact until you are over her. At this point she knows all she has to do is give you attention for a couple of days and you will be wrapped around her finger again.
I tell her how I feel every day. Her feelings though is kind of a mystery no matter how I ask her.
You're 100% her backup. You can do one of 3 things:1. Play hard to get (give her less attention)2. Make her jealous with a new woman (stick with the woman for a while and pretend you're SUPER happy)3. Or get ready to leave/move on.
I am not sure how she feels because she keeps changing her answer. She has done everything. She has friendzoned me, she has rejected me, she has said she has mixed feelings, she has said she likes me, she has said she never liked me, she said she wanted to be in a relationship with me. My head is spinning, I don't know what she feels. I guess I will try and play hard to get, its all I have left. Anyway, thanks for the advice.
The thing is that she might have feelings for you. However, she's not going to act on them until whatever guy is #1 is out of the picture.Goodluck with your endeavor!
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Well, what happened is that she had two crushes, one on me and one on this other guy. This other guy is not interested in her nor ever talks to her, while I already told her that I like her and talk to her everyday. I don't think she is that type of girl honestly. All of this has been kind of confusing for her. Of course she likes the other guy more, but I was wondering if there was a way to get her to choose me over him.
Why would you WANT to be with her knowing full well that you will always be her second choice - even from the very beginning? Have some respect for yourself. Find a girl who wants YOU. Someone who makes YOU their first priority. Someone who chose YOU first- over anyone else. Despite what you think, she IS that type of girl - because she can't even make up her mind between two men.
okay. I guess you have a point. Its been kind of difficult for both me and her for a little while now. I guess I have liked her so long that it has blinded me from any reason. Thank you for your input.
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