Why do guys always have a backup girl?

[Anonymous]

What percentage of guys do you believe have a back up girl? And why?

[hellionthesagereborn]

Almost no guy has a back up girl, its women who have back up men. studies show that (and its been awhile so I might be a bit off on the numbers) 70% of women have a back up man, a "friend", and half of them are men their current boyfriend knows and again, if memory serves 30% of the time the man has already confessed his feelings to her (which is why she keeps him around, he is a guarentee if the current relationship fails).

Men on the other hand rarely have a back up man. Part of the reason why men go longer periods of time between relationships then women. I don't know the exact numbers since I've not seen a study on the subject but I would wager that its probably less then 25% of men have a back up girl, and am inclined to believe its substantially lower then that (based upon personal experience and the people I know).

[Rizen]

I've been in onesided relationship & to be honest I didn't have a backup girl then too.
Not all guys do that. It depends on emotional bonding of two.
If it's only sexual then there's no place for monogamy. In that case there could be more than one girl.
But I'd say 'backup' is not right word. G&G all get attracted to multiple person simultaneously or one after another. There are majority of chances that after leaving one partner, another possibly come in sooner or later. So I'd not name these phases as "backup girl".

[Lina26]

Its awful to put all men in one basket. How do you feel when men put women in one basket?

[SirJohn42]

I dont do that. Im not desperate enough. Nor do I want to hurt my current S/O's heart. Nor do I need another as my back up plan.

I feel its cheating and also leading someone on as a partner or just to have sex makes you a sleeze ball.

[Anonymous]

When I was single I’d be talking to multiple women at a time until I found one I was serious about, then I’d stop talking to the others.

I’d do this because I’m just not gonna waste my time being serious about a girl who might be no good.

[spartan55]

Girl, you really seem to pick the shitheads... might be time to recalibrate your standards.

[MrCommodore]

Only 20% or less, most guys don't cheat or don't have backup girls.

[chukio]

Only players have back up girls and you should read the vibes before that happens. Him always on his phone texting is one his phone always on silent.

[0112358]

5% maybe?

but it's the most sought after guys of course.

[Anonymous]

I had three levels of backups and then the third one laerned about the second one and she set her up. So now number two is in prison and number three thinks that she has moved up to number two, which I guess that she has

[katiebaby44_]

That sounds messy.. best of luck to you my man.

[Tomtom9090]

Not sure, and you're wrong. Women are the ones with backups as they never rid their male contacts when they enter a relationship.

[Anonymous]

'Cause all you dumb sluts dump us and move on to the next guy

[Anonymous]

I don’t even have one so those guys are probably players

[Anonymous]

Same reason we have car insurance. You hope you won't need it but are glad you have it if you do.

[NathanDavis]

Not me, I only have backup hard drives

[exitseven]

I never did that. It never even occurred to me.

[Ripper_E]

That is impossible to measure

[Sam_The_Savage]

I always have it's quite fun.

[Waldoe]

2% have back up girls, choose better guys

[scott04sa22]

Why do girls always have a backup guy?

[Luckycharms12]

So do some don't. Just like girls

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why girls always have a backup guy

[realdaddy]

Gross, is this real :O

[Kindeyes]

Only the selfish guys do that sweetie not me

[Yellovv]

What you mean exackly?

[chriscdi]

u mean a side chick?

[syskey69]

We dont,

[anylolone]

Almost none.

[GAGSucksBalls1]

i dont

[In_Trance]

Like... maybe 5%

[JenLoring]

You mean their mom?