I am so SICK of being the girl that guys come back to after they sleep with someone?

[Anonymous]

I cannot say how many times I have been texting a guy, he gets distant, he goes fucks some skank then comes back and tries to date me? Do I look desperate or stupid or something? Of course I don’t want them now. I’m just so sick of this. Why can’t I ever be first

[Bricealan]

Seems to be a trait of many men, although I had the same arrangement when I was in my 20's. She would fuck other guys, and when they brushed her off, or disappeared for a while, she would call me.
Same deal. Different time. Different people. later, she wanted to 'settle' for me, and I told her I did not want to marry her, because I was always 'second fiddle" and would have always had that feeling in my head.
I think you are right to feel that way.

[TheSpaceGnome]

You can be first, you just have to pick men who aren't fuckboys.

Its an easily spotted personality type, "dimwitted", "alpha male", "confident" types, your "jock" or "drunkard" or "conman" stereotypes. You can spot them instantly by how they talk.

If this is all you are getting, lose your fixation on that kind of guy.

[In_Trance]

So block them ffs. Stop interacting