She has just always wanted a baby, yes she lives with me in my parents house, because she had some serious issues with her parent, she's liberal, I'm conservative lol what's ironic Is she doesn't believe in abortion but I do. I would like to marry her I love her. And I'm able to support us because I work with my father in his business, money and not being able to support her isn't a problem or a fear. And I already pay rent to my father to live on his property and other expenses that you would normally pay.
I see... so this is when views become a small issue in a relationship. I'm glad your situation is better than I assumed (lol I have to stop assuming stuff). Why don't you want a baby? Funny thing is, I'm usually for abortion IF and only if certain specific situations have occurred. Anyway, I'm glad you love her and stuff. It's great that money and support is not a problem. Would you RATHER have a baby with her after you are married? Can you convince her to wait somehow? You can use facts... how having kids does not make relationships better and can cause issues if the couple is not married and just living together. (I took a relationship class in college)!! www.parents.com/.../:/
I'm just a little scared I won't know what I'm doing, I would like to have a family with her because like I said we are going to get married too, it's just being a little scared, I don't think that it will matter what age I am, I would probably have the same fear if I were 30 or 35 too, you know.
Did you tell her how serious you are about this. Tell her, "Look, I know you want a baby, but I am not ready to start a family with you." :)
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I just think it would feel so good to just cum inside of her as weird as that sounds and her liking it.
Well it would probably feel really good, but will it feel really good when in 9 months she gives birth to your baby? If the answer is yes, well then good luck with parenthood, if it isn't then just don't cum inside her, the only way you could cum inside her and her not getting pregnant if she start taking the pill
But I just keep thinking about the temptation of it feeling so good and finishing inside of her as weird as that sounds and her telling me and wanting me too.
Okay whatever you want.
Well then prepare to possibly be a father lol that'll be your consequence. If you are happy with this girl then go ahead but just think about your future if you do get her pregnant. There is also birth control she can be on if she wants. If not.. then just know that you might become a father.
@ashleymaries1990 I'm happy with her, we both want to get married. :D
No I love her and we are planning on getting married.