People claim that being a virgin in college isn't that bad. That's total bs. I'm a 20 y/o and a virgin. I never had a girlfriend before college. The last two years in college I dated 5 girls. The first girl said "we weren't a match". That was 3 days after I told her I was a virgin. The next 2 I was awkward around them and I think they knew I was a virgin. They both broke up with me. The forth girl, on our third date, made a joke about how being a virgin is bad. I didn't laugh, so she asked if I was a virgin. Said yes and she just said "oh". She broke up with me a week later because she said she wanted to have sex and I wanted to wait a couple weeks or so. The last girl just broke up with me last Thursday. We were dating for 2 1/2 months. She asked me about my first time. I said I was a virgin. She thought it was cool. I thought she was fine with it. Turns out, she cheated on me with an acquaintance. He said they slept together a couple times, even on Wednesday. On the Tuesday before then she lied and said she would wait as long as I wanted. She was a b! tch. Everybody claims its ok to be a virgin in college, but every girl I know hates virgins. There was this one girl I was gonna try and get to know. I over heard her saying that she "would never date a loser virgin". I didn't even talk to her. Will I ever meet a girl that doesn't mind me being a virgin?
Why do people lie and say it doesn't matter if you're a virgin?
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