My boyfriend that I am dating of almost 2yrs got mad at me for posting a pic on Instagram with a guy, it was just a sweet little innocent pic, he was also gay and my boyfriend got bothered so I took it down, yet I see on his snapchat always taking pics with other girls.. That he told me liked him. So it doesn't make much sense
(Screenshots) My boyfriend got jealous that I posted a pic with guy?
Ohhhh boy. You messed up BAD. If you're in a relationship, never EVER EVER post a selfie with another guy. Don't even take one. For guys, it resembles that you were going out with that guy, which, of course, your boyfriend would be furious with.
If my girlfriend did the same, I would just ignore her for a long time because I would be so pissed off. I justify his actions.
Just pls, for the sake of sanity and your relationship, apologize saying you didn't know how guys take it, and don't do it again.
PS: when you say the guy is gay, it sounds like total BS and your boyfriend isn't gonna believe it
If this bothers him he is seriously insecure about himself. He should trust you, relationships builds on mutual trust. You did nothing wrong. There's not much you can do. You can't stop hanging out with people you like and care about, men or not, because you are walking on egg-shells not to fire up your boyfriend. This is HIS problem, his to solve, in himself. You might help him by showing him his own value, making him more secure, but you can't change him. Good luck to you both.
He is obviously not fear to you, If you tell him he is gay and its a friend of yours and your boyfriend hangs out with girls THAT like him I would say goodbye to him a long time ago. The first, girl never tell him I love you when he does worse, the second he does not respect you enough to man up and respect that.
BWT You are Gorges and Beautiful you can do better plenty of fish in the ocean and I am not telling you to say goodbye to him but I only want to tell you my opinion because they are many fuckboys out there be careful
If he's jealous over a boy that's gay... He probably needs to re-evaluate himself. Maybe he's insecure. Pump him up a little bit. Tell him how great he is. And if that doesn't work then 👋👋👋 bye... I wouldn't be able to stay with someone who gets jealous over a gay guy but posts pictures with girls who he KNOWS likes him. This isn't stuff that should be happening 2 years into a relationship. There should be trust by now 🙄🙄🙄.
I'd be mad, too. What are you doing out with other guys and he doesn't know about it? You seem a bit disrespectful to me. The fact he didn't know you were around other guys probably sounds suspicious to him, too. You and I both know that if he took a pic with a girl and then told you later she was a lesbian, you still would be uncomfortable. Pretty rude if you ask me.
Lol serious? She can have a social life without him and she doesn t need to update him every time she leaves her house like he s her father. He s the wrong one here in my opinion. And it s childish to not confront the person but yet again they are kids afterall.
@archiz No, she's wrong. I didn't say that she couldn't hang out with other guys. What I said was is that he should know. She already pointed out that HE tells HER when he does it, so I don't think it's unreasonable to expect the same thing in return. I've never been in a relationship where I didn't let my partner know I was hanging out with guys and as many as the jerks I have been with, they always let me know when they were hanging out with girls. It's just called respect. Unfortunately, some people these days just don't have it. And 17 is not a kid.
17 is most def a kid; even legally. And as I said she doesn t have to update him every time she goes out. There is smthng called mutual trust too yea? Also from what I read she didn t mention him telling her with who he s hanging rather that the girls he is with like him. This is much more disturbing... Especially that the guy she took a pic with is actually gay. In the end the guy sounds selfish and insecure.
@archiz 17 is an adolescent, there's a difference. You didn't read what I said. I know that she said he hangs out with girls. What I said was that she should have mentioned she was going to be with a guy out of respect for him. And she should update him to let him know who she was around.
This is the problem with people and relationships. Basic relationship etiquette has flown out the window. His reaction is childish, but she should let him know when she's hanging out with someone of the opposite gender. I don't think that's asking for too much. My parents did it when they were dating and do it now. It's not difficult.
Mom: "Hey, I'm going to eat with people from the office" Dad: "Oh really? Who" Mom: "Joe, Cassandra, Mike, and Kim. We're going over account receivables. I'll be back in a few hours" Dad: "Okay, text me and let me know you got there safe" Mom: "Okay, love you" Dad: "Love you, too"
End of convo. That's what she should have done, then this wouldn't be an issue.
Yes I did read lol. You said: "She already pointed out that HE tells HER when he does it, so I don't think it's unreasonable to expect the same thing in return." So you assumed he tells her :p Anw by kid I mean naive, not mature enough, no experience etc... Also what you said is true, like you have a point. But at their age I assume the rl isn t that serious and it s not like they live together so they need to update each other. I mean if she s going out with friends straight out from schools I don t think she needs to contact him for that lol. It s like taking permission from him. And it s too suffocating.
The picture has absolutely nothing inappropriate going on, you're just smiling for a picture with your friend? Like, if he was groping your tits, I'd understand where your boyfriend was coming from but it's a 100% innocent picture and he's reacting like a child. He should get over himself, you didn't do anything wrong.
As some one who is very open and hangs with people who are both straight and gays. Your boy friend just needs to catch up with the times that having gay or lesbian friends doesn't mean automatically that its romantic. Its just that they happen to like the same sex.
My opinion is that he's just missing out a huge chunk of his own community and being kinda dismissive. Also he sounds kinda "needy."
wouldn't know your boyfriend know of jared since you're close friends with him?
your boyfriend needs to grow some balls... and you need to stop calling him babe every second. that prolly bugs him as well (not that it matters, but for future bfs)
Just break up with him. A guy who doesn't trust you is a guy you shouldn't trust either.
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He seems insecure and possessive. You guys are really young, so it makes sense he is acting very immature. I tried dating a guy like this and am so glad I moved on from him. I don't need that stress.
@EllieLexis513 Doesn't matter, she took a selfie with a guy and told her boyfriend he's gay. She's fucking him and claiming that he's gay. She's going to leave her boyfriend and start fucking the "gay" guy exclusively, and in the end she'll pull the same shit with him.
Women who hang out with other guys are not to be trusted.
Wow, who the fuck pissed in your Wheaties this morning? I don't agree with her being with a guy and her boyfriend not knowing but you're just reaching now and making stuff up.
@EllieLexis513 Are you stupid or just naive? Maybe you're not as emotionally intelligent as you've been taught that you are; oh wait, yeah we already know you're not. Women don't hang out with other men when they're content with their relationship, they hang out with them when they know their relationship isn't going to last a lifetime and they're looking for someone with more money, better in bed, or that will be a lifetime partner in the event that they actually decide to be with someone for the rest of their lives.
Studying psychology and sociology teaches you one thing really, never trust a woman to do the right thing.
@EllieLexis513 lmfao... apparently you are not as "emotionally intelligent" as the bitter dude right here who got it all figured out and who imposes his own experience and beliefs on all situations and people. clearly a waste of your time and disrespectful. A person who can't state his opinion without belittleing the other to prove his point isn t worth arguing with in my opinion.
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