I found these messages on my boyfriends phone this is his ex girlfriend. She's the white he's the green I am beyond mad he's going along with the conversation is this cheated?
If he's the green you've got bigger fish to fry my friend. But all and all he didn't really do anything WRONG per say. He didn't handle properly in any regard but he didn't play along with it. You can't really talk with him about it either because then he'd know you went through his phone which is a breach of trust and invasion of privacy. Basically you could've solved this situation but because you went snooping you're SOL if you tell him you went through his phone without permission I'm almost certain he will leave you. But he seems to be handling the situation decently enough. I suggest getting that sluts number and calling her out for it though.
That's really weird. On one hand, he never even said anything sexual. She kept trying to seduce him, and he just tried to keep composing a normal conversation. Its like it all went right over his head. Jeez... That's confusing.
On the other hand, a good boyfriend would've been uncomfortable, realized it was wrong, and removed himself from the conversation before it progressed as far as it did.
I don't think it was technically cheating, but it was very disrespectful for him to do, and I wouldn't blame you if you left him.
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Anonymous
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i'm a little confused who's who, but the green is being super inappropriate if that's your boyfriend or the home wrecker I don't know, either way if your boyfriend is the grey i'd still be mad he shouln't be talking to her if she obviously wants to hurt your relationship, if your boyfriend is the green you got much more problems then worrying about the home wrecker
No, as a matter of fact that is the opposite of cheating; that is entertaining a person by responding to them while they make themselves look like a fool and you just sort of sit bewildered wondering what to do.
he is not writing as if flirting but after haring that girl talking in that way keeping to talk is silly... especially about these kind of things. I think he should text her.
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Anonymous
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Hold up.. If he's the green then he has dildos up his whoo ha? Um... Something is clearly wrong. I think you need to have a long talk with him.
well FIRST of all you shouldn't of been going through his phone to begin with thats an invasion of privacy, second of all as you can see in his responses his answers were very blunt and straight to the point no harm done.
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