He could also be showing you that he respects your choice of friends or is cool with other people, or can just be sociable
He has been befriending bunch of my friends from different friend groups. He wasn't part of any of the groups earlier. They are both girls and guys. And he's making a big deal out of it in social media. Liking and commenting everything they post etc. And he doesn't really do that to anyone else. And they really are not as close as one might think if you only saw the social media posts. And he's befriending more and more of my friends all the time and I find all of this very confusing.
Does sound kind of weird, like maybe he's trying too hard to be a part of something that he isn't. Is he is he looking everything they post, or is it liking pics of girls in bikinis or whatever?
No girls in bikini stuff, just random everyday posts. People hanging out together, going to events, food pics, landscapes and everything that's at least a little funny. And everytime he rans to any of them irl he remembers to post pics of it, even if it was just a 5min meeting. And he doesn't post a lot.
That's weird. How old is he?
Closer to 30 than 20
Is he an attention seeker? Like, he needs to be liked and known by everybody?
I don't know. Might just as well be! I just know that he has a huuuge crush on me and he's pretty shy and indirect about it. And now those friends he has been befriending have started to notice it too and I'm put to a very uncomfortable place.He does work in a field where a lot of people know him..
So what are you going to do? Are you going to ask him
At the moment, when just about everybody is trying to drag me in middle of their stupid relationship dramas, I'd just want to forget about all the people around me and let them do what ever the **** they want and live my own life. Sorry, just a bit pissed off by the latest trick one of my pals pulled.
That's a good idea. Are you going to confront that friend that just pissed you off?
After calming down a little. Not a good idea to just go and rant about something. Better to have an actual conversation.
Thanks for MHO!!
As in see them more often or getting to know more about them or what? I'm sorry I'm a little lost on the subject 'cause this is not something I could see myself doing 😅
Will give you an example.A has a huge crush on B. So A associates herself with B's friends C&D to be able to 1) Get to know a little more about B2) Show B that she can get along with his friends.3) Be around B more often
Ok. Thought it might be something like that. Thank you for your answer! 😊
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We already know each other, and waaay better than he knows any of my friends. Or do you mean know more about them or how they behave when they are with their friends or something like that?
Yeah, either that or something shady like trying to get with the friends.