Will I ever get a girlfriend at 4 " 11?

[SorrySalads]

I am 4 foot 11, 23 years old, and I've never had a girlfriend. Im not fat and not ugly, compared to other guys I've seen with guys. I've been told by several girls that I'm sweet and funny. But several l times I've asked those girls out and others and every single time they say "Sorry but you are too short." I have not met a girl that doesn't care height. I dont have high standards for women, but they have "high" standards for all men. I've been single my entire life now and I'm starting to wonder if I will be alone for ever.

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I wanna say thanks for everyone's opinion and that it gives me a bit more confifence to know that there are women out there who don't use height as aa the only factor.

[Negrodamuss]

you need to keep in mind that women generally are left with taking what they can get. They aren't the ones out there going out there for what they want in the dating world. They're usually the one standing in the corner hoping someone will approach them. i mean shit... hardly any of them can rival me where physical attractiveness is concerned without using makeup.

They're a deeply flawed creature, filled with many handicaps that take a great deal of effort on their part to compensate for. But they do a heck of a job trying to reach me, and i give them great credit for their efforts, which are worthy of recognition in the pages of time. Now as for yourself, every inch in height you lack for a woman, you have the ability to make up for it in other areas. Watch Tyrion from game of thrones. Shortest guy on tv, while also being the most popular and beloved by women.

[Negrodamuss]

also talk to @Archiz She has had a thing for short men ever since Hezbollah released their second edict about the divinity of short jihadis

[archiz]

the fuck hahahah
I once liked a guy my height but that s as low as I ll get
which is 5'4

[Negrodamuss]

@archiz nigga please. Lebanon was built upon the backs of short freedom fighters

[Negrodamuss]

i dont know a single lebanese woman who would be caught dead saying the lowest they'd go is 5'4!

[archiz]

I have my ways lol hahaha

[Negrodamuss]

@archiz yeah i know. which is why i have a new program for you to follow which ill hopefully rewrite some of that. You need to be re-educated before i even think of bringing you into the western world

[archiz]

uh oh no
I do things my way boyo

[Negrodamuss]

@archiz yeah i dont like that. It's fine, we'll work on it

[archiz]

compromise compromise XD

[Table20]

im sure some women are shorter than you man.. you'll find someone., keep your head up

[SorrySalads]

There was one thay was 2 inches shorter and said I was too short

[Table20]

lol then you dont need a hypocrite like that.. you'll find one dude, trust me

[lostgirl_searching]

Don't give up, you will find someone, I don't care about height and I'm 4"11 as well, the only reason I have dated taller guys because majority guys that asked me out are tall and never a guy that is short. For instance my boyfriend is 6"3. I never had a boyfriend that wasn't tall and never dated a guy that was the same height because I was never asked out by one.

[Anonymous]

im 5'2 ... and id have a hard time dating you, so far I've found im just not attracted to guys much shorter than about 5'6" and my current boyfriend is 6'. That being said, i know girls who don't much care about height and im sure that some girls around 5' or so would have no issue with it.

[Anonymous]

I'm 5'0, even though I'm a chick all my bfs have been 6+ I just must attract tall men I don't even have a thing for height like some people who have a perfered height. Have you had a girlfriend before? I wouldn't place so much concern on your height it's not your personality..

[Opinion Owner]

What about a Mexican women they're very short?

[Opinion Owner]

I think you're just having bad luck with the women you go after let one come to you?

[SorrySalads]

No I haven't. And I want to agree with you but I've been told to my face, by a girl who enjoyed being around me, that I was too short.

[Opinion Owner]

Screw her! Get on dating apps, mention this stuff to women be open and honest the right one will stay

[Opinion Owner]

Be willing to meet hangout giver you a chance regardless of height that's so ignorant.

[ElissaDido]

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[Bandit74]

That is impressive :o

[ElissaDido]

@Bandit74 Yup, instead of crying and complaining this guy looked at the bright side of life, he has no arms or legs but he knows how to surf, swim, speak in front of thousands of people etc...

[Bandit74]

Well its still puts him at a disadvantage. He had to be exceptional in other categories to compensate for what he lacked.

[SarahsSummer]

This should be the answer to 75% of the guys questions here whether it's penis size, height, hair, or whatever else they decide is their ecxcuse for not meeting girls.

[openthedoors]

I'm like 10 inches taller so I'd not go for you sorry

[blondfrog]

4'11 girl can get a boyfriend but a 4'11 guy cant' get a girlfriend unless you're really really lucky whihc I doubt you are, have money, or status. So yeah you're screwed. Unless you can find a girl shorter than you.

[Bandit74]

Honestly, it is possible but you are at a major disadvantage. Most women do expect the guy to be at least a few inches taller than them and you are shorter than like 90% of girls.

[Sammt999]

of course you can lol my relatives are at least as tall as you and they have gf's so there will be no probs for you if you like ur girlfriend to be shorter than you. Maybe it depends where you live and the types of girls you're attracted to.

[Anonymous]

There is no one here that can tell you what your future holds or whether or not you'll be single forever. Every action, behavior, or decision you do in your life will determine your future.

[abc3643]

Become a jockey. Once you do, you won't have problems getting women.

[ibodi]

Asian girls are for you if you are not a racist
I feel indonesian grils are shorter
You can find it there maybe

[Jxpxtxr]

haha wow I'm almost an entire foot taller than you
but there should be shorter girls or girls around your height

[blondfrog]

how tall are you?

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog 5'10" lol

[blondfrog]

Wow you're taller than me lol.

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog haha how tall are you?

[blondfrog]

5'7 lol I am a midget.

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog haha it's not that short for the US I think

[blondfrog]

Its 3 inches below the male average haha. Still I am taller than most American girls the average height is 5'3 for American females. But women I think want a guy to be at least a few inches taller than her right? Plus I am actually ok with my height I have more concerns to worry about like the fact that I actually do look like an alien.

[Waffles731]

@blondfrog
It depends where you are in the country, In massachusetts I'm above average at 5'11 and way taller than the average girl.
In Utah. I'm about Average.
My dad is 6'2 and when we got off the plane at salt lake we saw three women who were his height and there were plenty more

[blondfrog]

@Waffles731 I think those results are more skewed because like the example you gave on airplane people from all over world go over to airlines and there are only so many different American airlines not the company name you know what I mean. So you're more likely to get a skewed result or a better example would be going to a meeting where only really tall people meet of course you would be short next to them in comparison. These results were from all countries in the U. S. which gives a more accurate rating for the average height as opposed to only looking at certain states. In Czech Republic the average height for the females are 5'10 no kidding.

[blondfrog]

*states not countries in the u. s. lol

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog lol the average height for women in the Czech Republic is 5'6" not 5'10"

[blondfrog]

Oh really? lol It was a long time since I looked this up damn my grandpa ass :P. Is that where you are from? I thought you were from Luxembourg? Still that's pretty tall compared to other countries for females.

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog in the Netherlands it's 5'6" but men here are considered the tallest in the world (and I think that's really true lol) and the worlds tallest women live in Latvia at 5'7" on average.

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog in Luxembourg it's like 5'6" for women, too I think

[Waffles731]

I've heard that too as well.
I used to be insecure about my height but then I stopped caring, 5'11 isn't bad anyway

[blondfrog]

Wow lol damn yeah some tall women out there. If only I didn't exercise at a young age my doctor told me that had I not exercised so much at a young age you probably would have been taller maybe by an inch or two I could have at least been 5'8 or 5'9. Have you ever heard of HGH human growth hormone pills? They can actually make you grow about an half an inch to an inch maybe I should take those lol. Plus if you stretch a lot and increase your flexibility that can actually increase your height too.

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog yeah there was this Iranian guy on my high school who'd take them lol not sure if they worked for him though I haven't seen him in 2 years

[blondfrog]

Yeah they usually offer them to dwarfs. And yeah I see have you ever tried measuring yourself right when you wake up from sleep? If you actually grow an inch but then later lose the height.

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog yeah I'm like 177-178cm in the mornings and then 174-175 in the evenings 😂

[Jxpxtxr]

It's to do with your spine which is compressed by the pressure of your weight throughout the day and then spreads out during the night when that pressure is taken away because you're laying down

[blondfrog]

Yea its pretty cool. I am thinking about doing yoga for stretch exercise is that good or should I choose something else?

[Jxpxtxr]

@blondfrog yeah you can do the cobra and the one where you bend forwards I forgot what it's called lol, yoga is good but keep in mind there will never be any permanent effect on your height with any of these methods

[blondfrog]

Hmm yeah that makes sense.

[Anonymous]

I am 5' but I live in Sweden. So if I got a boyfriend who love me with my height, you can doo too. ;)
Height is REALLY inrevelant shit when it comes to relationships.

[kittycat119]

You're half an inch taller than me!! Yay tiny power!!

[Anonymous]

We're the same size :). I'd date you if I liked you

[Jan1ssary_]

4.11 ? You can still get chicks bruh just act like a man and be confident.

[Capricornation]

Maybe you should find a girl shorter than you..

[bente2]

Find girls that are smaller than you

[Afrochick]

aw you are cute <3

[Anonymous]

How much is that in centimeters?

[SorrySalads]

I don't know why do you ask

[Opinion Owner]

cuz most of the world uses the metric system.