I mean having a "real" girlfriend that you want to spend your future with. I guess I am unlucky to find a partner in that way. The women I date were with me only a couple of months and then go.. I dont know why.. Have you been in a phase like that?
It could be a number of reasons. First of all I’d look at the women you’re dating. Do they all seem to be similar? If so than maybe avoid those types of women. I’d also look at yourself. Do you consider yourself masculine? Metro sexual? Women tend to not want to be w men who are “soft,” who they have no respect for. They may say they want an emotional man, but after a while they realize it’s a turn off. So if these women don’t respect you chances are they aren’t going to love you. Would you say you’re the best you? Could you improve physically speaking? Financially? Etc?
In life if you never try you will never know & in the land of love things seem to work in mysterious ways & as for love will kick you in the ass when you least expect it. As for the dating pool nowadays it seems like a cesspool however there are other pools waiting to be discovered. As for love there might be days where you think you have a better chance of getting hit by lightning on a submarine versus finding that special someone however lightning can strike my friend so never give up, never give in & keep moving forward no matter what.
it would be good for you to learn why they go so you can fix whatever is on your side.
try to do retrospection and analyze what could go wrong.
also, in every relationship, make open communication. Ask questions, speak about your feelings, make suggestions, and listen to their point of view. The sooner you learn something is wrong, the sooner you can start to solve it
You can reflect on why each relationships ended. Is there a pattern? Is it the type of women you selected or is it something you also need to consider and make changes for yourself as a better individual/partner? What are your wants and needs for a long-term relationship? What can you offer and improve on?
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I’ve never been with a woman for longer than a month. 3 out of the 4 cheated on me. One I just didn’t feel anything for but still decided to give her a chance. Broke things off with her after Valentine’s Day😅 I stopped having relationships after an issue in college which I think was 7 or 8 years so? I haven’t had an actual girlfriend in 9 years. After all that time it honestly got easier to stay single so much do you the point I can’t see myself being happy in one. I’m happier without. But that’s just me. If you really want to find someone in sure it’ll come when you least expect it.
You need to figure out what changed to make them leave. Either by reaching out and explaining that you are trying to understand the pattern and whether they can explain why they left. Or by simply figuring out what it was that changed and apparently drove them away after a few months. It sounds like it's probably not related to appearance or anything that is apparent when first meeting you. So either it's some deeper part of you or some habit that gets annoying over time. Or maybe the girls you date just aren't looking for something serious. E. g. if all your partners are in their early twenties and you meet them at nightclubs, it might not be a mystery that they aren't down for the long term.
Women are a waste of time and energy, spend more time on improving yourself. Remember, all women are the same! They are confused beings, and are pretty much always unsure about what they actually want in a relationship. They want stuff but then they don't want them. For example, biologically speaking, a woman is designed to have a child, she has that inmate want and need for a child but then she doesn't want that child, why? Cuz she doesn't want to disfigure her body. So women are crazy, confusing being who aren't sure about anything. Rather work on yourself, start working out, read a lot, learn new skills, become successful. Good luck! 👍🏻
there are reasons. it might have to do with mental health. girls need a man that projects a certain prosperity and drive that uplifts them. they want to grow alongside their partner.
it's a shame that these same women don't realize we are those same men. chemical imbalance doesn't mean it can't be corrected. i know a lot of great guys like this but never got the chance because they weren't corrected. i like to think i am one, but i'll talk to my psychiatrist about that.
We live in a fallen world and yet expect to have relationships with good people without seeking God's wisdom and assistance...
To do so is foolish!
You just never know as this is something that can come from nowhere and overnight become the best thing of your life.
if you think a girl will answer "me, i will be" it will never happen. you sound desperate n pathetic.
50% of what happens in life is good luck, being in the right place at the right time and so on. The other 50% is what you make of it, and most people fail miserably at it.
I often think the same and then I either see or am reminded all the heavy lifting it requires. No thanks. Lol 😂😆 and I don't do hookers or player chicks either lol
Short answer, nope. But as you get older you will find out that your just dodging bullets like neo in the matrix.
At this point?
No.
I came to the same realization back then for myself.
At some point things just don't change anymore.
There are other things you can do in life.
You just need to get into the habit of doing them alone.
Women aren't worth being depressed over. Theyre not that special
Maybe they though you waited too long to ask them to be your girlfriend?
Yeah just keep on looking if you really want one, you will find the one that you are looking for
Probably not cus ur cursed like me... not not even someone grandma wanna be with me
No you won't just like me 🧍🏽
Everyone one does eventually
Probably not
