Start accepting yourself and be confident about yourself , stay positive and push away negativity as much as possible , when you are angry or moody you are throwing off negative energy that most girls’ will not be turned on by , unless she is a negative person as well , so ask yourself this, question? would you approach a girl that was angry and pissed off that was miserable and negative about everything? Would you walk up to her and ask her out knowing she was pissed off and angry? So put yourself in her shoes and think how she would react to you being negative and angry and moody. Now understand not every girl is going to want you , because all of a sudden you decided to be positive all of A sudden , but when you choose to stay positive and have a positive outlook on things , most girls’ will be drawn to that positive energy that you are giving off , most girls love confidence in men , most girls want a man she can look up to that she can feel safe by his side , and feel protected by him she doesn’t want a weak man , if she does then she likes Sinps , that’s a whole different story lol But most girls are drawn to a man’s masculine energy , a guy she feels others like being around , Most girls love to brag about her man to her friends etc. if she isn’t bragging about you then she no longer is interested in you period , Most girls have no problems getting on her knees to a guy she can look up to and feel safe and secure with She wants a leader not a coward. So focus on your own confidence and stop being your own worst enemy , Most girls don’t look at Guy’s like guy’s look at girls ‘ Guy’s mainly look at girls’ for her beauty , Girls’ mainly look at Guy’s for his personality and confidence , and the masculine energy he possesses , You ever see a ugly guy with a hot girl? That’s the reason that ugly guy got her because of his positive energy and the way he treats her.
My brother didn't tell you like this you want a woman and you got to get up off your ass you have to take care of yourself you have to look presentable you have to be responsible and you have to have a good heart being honest man a good man a man of your word the man who's not lazy and get up and get out live your life stop looking for her she will find you when you least expect it so live your life don't worry about being alone what you need to know is the whole universe here is you it knows what you want don't fret over it God hears you and you don't want you to worry he's about your back what he wants you to do is be ready to care for that woman cuz she answers your life and treat her good to stop worrying get you together so when she does come into your life it's nothing but love and happiness between you no worries okay
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Anonymous
(30-35)
6 mo
Stick with the beard. You look way more handsome and older with it. Girls are being very foolish not noticing you. Or do you go out at all? Maybe you need to get out more. Go to bars or bookstore. You're bound to meet a girl the more you go out.
I didn't find my match until I was 35, and it wasn't due to a lack of searching. I have had a lot of first dates (almost all of them resulting in the lady ghosting me after; it is their favorite way of rejection), one relationship which lasted 1,5-2 years but she dumped me anyway, and one case in which I was (looking back at it) gaslighted/friendzoned, until I gave up after trying way too long.
I had in effect pretty much given up already, but just kept dating as a fun activity. I finally found someone in the middle of the pandemic lockdowns period (sept 2020, via internet, dated at my place as everything outside was closed), and it was a good one; I married her two years later (sept 2022).
So... Just keep at it, but just do it to have fun. It might just happen when you are not focussed on it.
My opinion is that sometimes when it seems like it's everyone else, it is...
There isn't anything wrong with how you look naturally.
The best advice I can offer is that occasionally if we do not fit or are not fully appreciated where we are... we must find new places to frequent, people to spend time with and different things to do, because the same ones ain't providing what we need. Instead of being down about it, which doesn't usually attract people, look at it as an adventure and an opportunity to get out there and redesign your life exactly as you would have it.
Now get out there and kick some ass and take no names hombre!
I don't think men ever actually make the first move on women. You need to start recognizing and looking for the subtle hints or very obvious ones and not hesitate to approach. I don't think any man does not get the attention but it's mandatory that you do not hesitate or she will forever disappear in to the abyss of life. I think if you analyze your situations around women that you will realize that the reason for the visual or verbal confrontations was because she wanted you. You just didn't have the guts or impulses to move on her.
U really look good. Why would u think so? U r still 26. Why dont u try ur luck in a different place. A different town maybe. I am in egypt and many girls here would go crazy over a guy with lighter skin. U will be a hot commodity here
Well handsome, I’d stop making a girlfriend the priority and just make it about meeting new people. Most couples I know are together because of a setup or someone introducing them.
I wouldn't class myself as a whiner yes I have the tendency to have a negative thought process and attitude but I will make a start on being more kind to myself
No you have to throw the whole attitude about doing stuff mainly to attract girls away. It firstly won't last, girls smell it miles away and you will grow even more bitter.
Improve because you WANT to improve try to find a different motivation than girls. They are just a side product to share your perfect life with.
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