How soon do you think I can get my first real girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Right now...

• I am 27, turning 28 in Sept
• I am heavy in weight (235lbs)
• I am short in height at 5'6"
• I have never had a real girlfriend.
• I haven't touched a woman in over 7 years
• I recently started a new job making $70k/yr
• I still live at home as of now
• I will be starting to get involved in young adult church group as early as July 25
• I am getting more proactive in therapy
• I have an appointment with the weight loss clinic next Tuesday
• I seek a woman without a romantic past and the same inexperience as me
• I may get my passport next pay period so I can travel internationally to potentially find a wife.

Soon

A considerable amount of time

A long time

Never

[Anonymous]

Lose the weight, gain your confidence back and make sure you know what you can bring into the table in the relationship. Where are you planning to travel to find a wife tho…?

[Asker]

Maybe Poland?

[Opinion Owner]

Try going on an international dating site first maybe, good luck!

[cdimples99]

You need to lose weight and get in a stable career at this stage of the game. You have to have traits that attract to have a significant other - I am realizing this too.

[Asker]

I am going to be working on the weight thing. Although I want a woman with the same inexperience as me.