Why does my boyfriend want me to be the exact opposite of his celebrity crushes?

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So my boyfriend thinks Megan Fox and Alex Morgan are super hot, but I don't think I look anything like them! Plus, he is always saying when he finds attractive women hot in front of me. Yes, it bothers me, but I've done it to get back at him once with a guy celebrity and he didn't really seem to care, he just found it as a fun competition. I've even heard him and his friends talking about which guys are the most attractive along with women. So that's not the problem. We have been dating for 2 years, and my boyfriend wants me to be nothing like his celebrity crushes! He wants me to dress super modestly, no almost too short shorts or dresses that you can't wear a bra with (even though I have smaller boobs so it's not gross or anything), no bikinis that show too much of my butt unless I wear a towel the whole time outside of the pool, and no tops that accentuate my boobs too much. It's cute that he is protective over me but it's extremely annoying that he is always talking about how hot other chicks are that might as well be wearing a bathing suit down the street in heels. I want to be sexy to him sometimes, not just cute all the time. He is always calling me cute and beautiful, but rarely sexy, except for the rare occasion in bed. Plus all of his celebrity crushes have dark hair, and last year he told me I should dye mine blonde! When I pointed this out to him, all he said was, well blondes have more fun! When I asked him about the clothes thing, he just jokes around and says stuff like why are your collar bones showing? Or why aren't your hands covered? He even made me throw out all my short shorts last summer, and it's hard to feel sexy or confident when you look like a prude walking around a bunch of gorgeous women showing off their bodies. I love him to death and I plan on marrying him after we finish college, but it's just driving me insane to know why he wants me to be so different from the girls he finds hot!
Why does my boyfriend want me to be the exact opposite of his celebrity crushes?
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