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How do you know if you're in the "friend zone"?

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  • fabiolaaa
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    Xper 4 Age: 41 , mho 58%
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    We have all been in that dreaded zone males and females. You know by the way the person is treating you as a person. If they are not expressing romantic interest in you or not flirting then you are in that zone. There is comfort in being near that friend you are crushing on for two reasons. One of the reasons is that you get to know the person better. Sometimes when we are interested in someone it is mainly do to physical attributes but when we get to know them we see them for who they are. Also being friends with them keeps s near them without there being any awkwardness. Not everyone is mature enough to behave properly after revealing a crush to someone.

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  • Zendrya
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    My boyfriend's response was "you know and if you have to ask, you are". But don't lose hope there can be a way out. My boyfriend was in the friendzone for like 6 months and made it out and we have been together for 4 years.

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  • MermaidLove
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    If she talks to you about random girl things that she would most likely chat with her girls about. If she ever says anything along the lines of "Your the best friend..." stuff like that

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  • Anonymous
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    1. If she is comfortable about talking about guys she fucked or sexual act with other men with you.

    2. If she turns her face to the side if you try to go in for a kiss or hugs you.

    3. If she say aw thanks if you give her a compliment.

    4. If you ask her out and she says "who else is coming?"

    5. She will never give you a personal compliment but a generalised one.

    6. She does not go out of her way to sit next to you or invade your personal space.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLCjZt3Zq7U



    7. You catch her ass on tinder.

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    • AnyaKarun
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      Spot on my friend

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  • Anonymous
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    I think you can get out tho as you just have to flirt more. Can u help me on this? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2229447-can-you-match-who-a-sweet-woman-would-do-these-things-with-explain

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  • super147
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    Yoda Age: 49 , mho 70%
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    If the girl tells you about all of her problems, particularly her relationship problems, calls you her best friend, yet still talks about other guys that she likes and never actually tells you that she's interested in you.

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  • YelahGrandi
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    Xper 4 Age: 27 , mho 49%
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    Answer this question: is your dick getting sucked?

    If the answer is yes, then you are not in the friend zone. If the answer is no, then you are in the friend zone.

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  • Anonymous
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    I guess you can feel it in every inch of your body :p.

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  • HarrisonWells
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    when even though they are single and complain about not meeting a good guy and tell you that they don't understand how you can still be single while they don't consider you. i have ended friendships for that

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  • redspoiler111
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    Wait for the right moment. If you say that person a good time slowly go in for a kiss like at a romantic sunset and if they were retreat comma well that's the one of the main signs.

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  • Decentguy
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    s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...285e301651.jpg

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  • Itsmeyay
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    Xper 5 Age: 39
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    When she Fucks the other guy and tell you about it.

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    • dissolute_dog
      dissolute_dog
      +1 y

      ^ LOL hahaha.

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    • BubbleBoy69
      BubbleBoy69
      +1 y

      this 100%.

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
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    if she doesn't tease you or giggle more around you, or if she doesn't smile more when you are around if she doesn't try to make any physical contact (even like a high five) if she talks about other guys

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  • Anonymous
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    The term "friendzone" was made up by a bunch of entitled loser guys who got butt hurt when some girls just didn't want to fuck them.

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  • Kolya
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    Xper 6 Age: 35 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    you will feel it... take a minute and ask yourself some cool headed questions and you will feel that chill

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  • Mrwoo99
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    Xper 6 Age: 33
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    If it takes you longer than a few days for her to put out. Trust me your just 1 in a hundred out of the guys who are feeding her gifts, dinner, drinks and attention.

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  • BeautifulPromisesx
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    Yoda Age: 31
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    When she calls you bro bc I don't friend zone tbh, I just brother zone.

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    • BubbleBoy69
      BubbleBoy69
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      GOING IN HARD.

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  • Liisjak
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    Xper 7 Age: 37
    +1 y
    325 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    You're the guy she talks to before having sex with somebody else lol, but you're 14 so she's not in Hoe mode yet... or kids these days.

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    • BubbleBoy69
      BubbleBoy69
      +1 y

      kids be fucking at 13 these days nigga.

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  • Zemuzze
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    Xper 5 Age: 25 , mho 38%
    +1 y

    Just look for the 'key words' such as: buddy, friend, mate, bro.

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    • iam123
      iam123
      +1 y

      What if a girl uses these terms and heavily flirts with you also?

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    • Zemuzze
      Zemuzze
      +1 y

      Well then its different I guess

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  • YouAskedForMyOpinion
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    Xper 5 Age: 30 , mho 65%
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    If I'm not flirting with a guy then they're just a friend.

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  • Anonymous
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    Probably when you are asking this, the girl had given you reasons to think you are in the friend zone, and if this has happened, you are in the ''friend-zone''.

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  • Browneye57
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    You will be for about 4 to 6 more years.
    How did we end up with children on this forum?

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    • es20490446e
      es20490446e
      +1 y

      Someone procreated.

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  • Keepcalm89
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    Xper 6 Age: 41
    +1 y

    I don't believe in "friendzones" people are either into you in that way or they are not that's it

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  • TheInvisibleMan
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    Xper 6 Age: 28
    +1 y

    If you have feelings for her and she doesn't for you. Or if she did have feelings for you but you missed your chance.

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    When you find out on here that someone who has been messaging you, has failed to tell you he has a girlfriend.

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    • Daynada
      Daynada
      +1 y

      Like you didn't know

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    • Anonymous
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      @Daynada no, I didn't know, or I would not have began the messaging. Insulted this girlfriend too so i blocked him. Fingers need to be pointed at him, not me.

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    • Daynada
      Daynada
      +1 y

      What a dick! Right?

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  • TacosRAwesome
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    Master Age: 36
    +1 y
    5.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    She sends nudes and asks "do you think some guy who is not you will like them?"

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  • pavlove
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    Master Age: 34
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    Good rule of thumb if you have to ask then you are. Now that might not mean forever friend zone but at least That's what she feels right now

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  • FýrdracaDócincel
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    Guru Age: 29
    +1 y

    When you start feeling like a disposable addition to her like as opposed to a part of it.

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    • FýrdracaDócincel
      FýrdracaDócincel
      +1 y

      life*

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (18-24)
    +1 y

    The "friendzone" isn't real. Once someone sees you as a friend and knows you, you can't change their opinion on you.

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  • Nahidpie
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    Xper 7 Age: 28
    +1 y

    You'll know when you're in her friend zone but her body language and actions

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Ask them out. If they give any answer that isn't a definite yes. Then you'll know.

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  • rgb008
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    Master Age: 32
    +1 y

    If she's says you're like a brother to her.

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    • AndrewMG
      AndrewMG
      +1 y

      @rgb008 I was told I was like a twin brother before, which was bizarre as we weren't even that close, I was almost tempted to request a DNA test!

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    • fueledbythc
      fueledbythc
      +1 y

      I was told this one before by a woman followed up with "not like that's a bad thing." I believe she is interested in me as is her friend.

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  • ikissedtheskyonce
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    Guru Age: 32
    +1 y

    She comes to you for boyfriend advice

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  • queensummit
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    Xper 4 Age: 30
    +1 y

    When she says aw he's like a brother to me you know our in that friends zone

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  • xsashax
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    Xper 5 Age: 30 , mho 63%
    +1 y

    When she calls you "fam" or "bro" lol

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  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    If you are not getting anything from her except "friendship".

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    like she talks about other guys and the worst one is when she treats you somewhat like a brother or a family member

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  • JohnDoe3000
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    Yoda Age: 38
    +1 y
    1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    If you have to ask you probably are...

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  • SpeedBeam
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    Xper 4 Age: 24 , mho 35%
    +1 y

    I mean, I already am in that.

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  • Marellia
    Marellia Follow
    Xper 7 Age: 29 , mho 54%
    +1 y

    When there's no intimacy

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  • milopiano
    milopiano Follow
    Xper 5 Age: 24 , mho 55%
    +1 y

    'Dude, pal, mate, bro, best bud.'

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  • truuhly
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    Xper 4 Age: 42 , mho 33%
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    When ur still a friend and nothing more

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  • Grace_Rdz
    Grace_Rdz Follow
    Yoda Age: 27
    +1 y
    326 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    If you ask about the friendzone.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    if she tlls u about other guys

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    • JohnDoe3000
      JohnDoe3000
      +1 y

      Ouch...

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    • Centurion20000
      Centurion20000
      +1 y

      Nailed it.

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    • cowycam7
      cowycam7
      +1 y

      Sometimes that might be a sign that she wants you to get jealous

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    • iam123
      iam123
      +1 y

      Not always the case. I've known girls who talked to there crushes about guys they had slept with.

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  • es20490446e
    es20490446e Follow
    Master Age: 38
    +1 y
    5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    What happens when you flirt with her?

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  • Iamjames
    Iamjames Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 29
    +1 y

    Trust me you'll know 😂😂😂

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    • es20490446e
      es20490446e
      +1 y

      Or he already knows :P

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  • Hotterpop
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    Xper 5 Age: 24
    +1 y


    if she calls you dude or bro or man

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  • _HimigNgKalayaan_
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    Guru Age: 31
    +1 y

    If ur friends with them

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    by being stupid enough to call it the friend zone

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  • Snowbadger101
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    Xper 4 Age: 37
    +1 y

    you know... lmao

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