Girlfriend sent pics to another guy while drunk?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend came to me this morning and told me some pretty upsetting news. Last night was her first time drinking and she got drunk. She was snapchatting a guy who has a reputation of being a fuckboy. She ended up sending him a picture of her boobs. She claims she only remembers sending him a picture of her boobs and she thought it was me it was going to. She doesn't know if the other guy was drunk either. I'm confused on what to do. I feel angry that she did this to me, drunk or not, but at the same time I feel compassion because she was drunk. Any advice?

Updates

+1 y

She blocked told guy on snapchat before she even told me about the situation. We have been together for almost 4 years. She has his snapchat because she is on the swim team with him and she thought he would be different since they were friends. The guy knows me too, I wouldn't say we are friends but I am nice to him when I see him.

[Anonymous]

It's good that she was upfront with you and told you what happened. But at the same time I think she knew what she was doing. I mean you don't just send a random pic of your tits to someone out of the blue. She was probably talking to him for a bit and then sent him a pic of them. She only told you about it since she knew you would probably find out or because she felt bad. I would be pretty mad at her if it was me. But I would give her the benifit of the doubt. But after a long serious talk and some new ground rules, such as if it happens again it's over and she has to delete this guy from snapchat, Facebook, number all of it and has no contact with him again at all.

[HarrisonWells]

Being drunk is never an excuse. She made a decision, one that you find hurtful. I never got drunk, even my first time drinking. If she can do this now and tell you, what about what she hasn't told you? Be careful, she sounds irresponsible. If I were you, I would talk about this in a serious discussion.

[Girl7150]

It was her first time being drunk - when I first started drinking and dating my boyfriend (around the same time), I fucked up (at least in his eyes) a couple of times as well. I love him with all my heart and never actually meant to hurt him and I would've never acted the same way had I been sober.

So I'd say as your girlfriend learns how to handle a drink, you should cut her some slag, I'm sure she loves you and it was just a mistake :)

[NyomiMcClinton]

If you she openly came to you and told you then I would forgive her. She could of kept it from you since she didn't sleep with the guy. You have females who send who aren't their bfs nude pics all the time, and will never tell their boyfriend that. They keep it a secret. But her behavior shouldn't be consisten where she is always sending a guy nude pics and blaming it on her drinking.

[btbc92]

First of all, what the heck is she doing with his snapchat account? I would suggest that you dump her for this. Nobody told her to get drunk in the first place. She flashed herself, do you really need a girlfriend who lacks common sense? Tell her goodbye. No excuses. Be glad she told you, but she was being the stupid one.

[Natattack21]

If she came up to you, ad told you the truth. I think its is in need of some compassion. But i would keep an eye on her when she drinks

[Anonymous]

Disregard all of the advice from the pinks UNLESS they are telling you to ditch her. She's testing your boundaries to see what crap you will put up with. Your only option is to ditch her without question.

One thing I can guarantee you, if you stay with her, you will regret it.

[AleDeEurope]

She cheated. Time to dump the hoe. Drunk or not, there's no excuse for her behavior. Wait till she actually fucks a guy and blames it on the alcohol.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

T pain, is that you? 😮

[helpme6]

If you've been together for a long time then maybe give her the benefit of the doubt. I wouldn't call it cheating. She told you also which means she's genuinely sorry I think you should forgive her

[mooky06]

What I don't understand is why she has some "fuckboy" on her snapchat? Like really? 😶

[aidangirl001]

i'd say break up with her... it will happen again. this behavior isn't an "accident" even while drunk. 😕 i'm sorry and best of luck to you. ❤️

[BeautifulPromisesx]

Tell her to delete & block him off snapchat if it was really a mistake.

[10dsw]

Umm... yea okay.

Why is there a fuckboy on her SC in the first place. Please do yourself a favour and flush this broad lol

[livils33]

If she's dating u why does she have some fuckboy in her Snapchat?/

[Browneye57]

Being drunk doesn't make you do things you wouldn't do anyway.
Underage drinking?
Consider she's not ready to date. And it may not be a match.

[Anonymous]

First it'll be snap chat, then she'll say the alcohol made her slip and fall on a guys dick, next thing you know it she'll be pregnant and females will still be telling you to give her one more chance, dump this garbage and find a good woman.

[ittybittykitty42]

That sounds suspicious to me. Maybe not grounds to dump her immediately, but I'd be cautious about investing too much in this relationship.

[Bandit74]

Dump her and find a girl who isn't a slut.

[pawwwla]

give her support, she may be feeling awful

[BlockFish]

Drunk or not it happened.

[Anonymous]

tell her that she owes u a bj

[Marinepilot]

Dump her right now.