My boyfriend called me the next day and told me that the night before his female friend asked him over for dinner and that they got drunk together. He has a drinking problem as well as drugs. I’m struggling with my emotions because he didn't tell me prior and I don’t know how their relationship is. He said it’s platonic and put her down, but with other factors involved I feel hurt.
If it were a friend catch up outside of her house I would be okay, even just dinner, but going to her house and getting drunk bothers me. I think they’ve been friends for less than a year. He had a problem with my guy friend of five years who lives in a different state saying someone will always like someone. Maybe this planted a seed. I hate feeling this way and I never had this happen in previous relationships.
Am I overreacting? Is there something I should ask him?
I’ve been trying to be supportive of his own struggles and that’s something I’ve been dealing with on my own and this just added a bit of hurt. I don’t see the other addictions getting better even though he has said he would stop drinking several times.