basically I’ve been friends with this guy for a little over a month now (m18 and f18). He’s been really touchy towards me like getting in my bed and telling me to come over so we can cuddle, making me scooch over so he can share the same chair with me when another one is open, staring straight into my eyes 2 inches away from my face, etc. he also ended up spooning me and I woke up in his arms this morning but last night, we both got drunk and he asked me to hook up with him. I said no and he respected that, but I feel like this changes the dynamic of our friendship a bit. Before, I could’ve just ignored all the touching and pushed it aside but now since he actually asked to hook up, it becomes more direct if that makes sense. So my question is, is this just because he was drunk or does he think about it when sober and blurted it out because of the alcohol? He also for the last few weeks have been talking about hooking up with different girls and asked me if I was getting jealous. (I obviously said no) I know he’s not getting laid like that for a fact because yesterday, he said he swore off girls for the semester so he’s being incredibly confusing.
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As one guy here is saying, he wants to know you and he does but there doesn't exist guy friends.
He loves you and all the things that come with that.
If you don't like it, tell him but he probably will never be the same0
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Well yeah even before the alcohol he's clearly interested in you, I would have thought that would be pretty obvious given his actions though.0
How does the saying go? A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts.
He seems kind of toxic regardless, though.2
Of course he wants to fuck you. There is no such thing as a "guy friend".0
there is no such thing as friendship between men and women.0
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He is being confusing because he does not know how to approach you without taking a chance of scaring you away, so he vacillates but gets scared as he gets closer to approaching you. Alcohol is the solvent that dissolves social inhibitions, so he finally expressed his feelings for you. Yes, he desperately wants you, but is trying to remain a gentleman and your friend at the same time.