When you are drunk the first thing that is impaired is your judgement, then your senses get all blurred. Sometimes you don't remember what happened when you are sober.
The alcohol most certainly had something to do with it. Bad things happen when large amounts of alcohol are involved.
However, I still voted B, because alcohol doesn't make someone not realize that they are having sex, it just impairs their judgement about it. He was impaired and therefore unable to think about potential consequences.
All in all though, HE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS ACTIONS. Alcoholics or perhaps just some people who drink alcohol are notorious for making up excuses for themselves in order to manipulate others into feeling sorry for them or to not hold them accountable for what they did while they were drunk.
Especially look out for this guy saying stuff like "I have to drink because..." or "I can't keep my promise to you because blah blah blah..." or "if only such and such were different in my life, I could blah and I wouldn't have to drink so much," or "blah is the reason I have to drink."
So basically excuses in which he is manipulating you so that he doesn't have to answer to something.
Remember, never excuse someone for something they did that was clearly wrong because they were drunk and never do something for an alcoholic that they could do themselves if they were sober.
It can be hard sometimes because you are afraid that you are betraying them and indeed they may want you to think this, but you are ALWAYS doing the right thing by holding this kind of behavior unacceptable.
He is every bit as responsible for it as he would have been even if he had not been drunk.
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if he was blacked out or realllly drunk, he probably didn't realize what he was doing and who he was doing it with. it's still shitty and not exactly an excuse.
I do a lot of stupid things when I'm drunk I'd be more forgiving of him. He's only 17 too so he's probably not experienced with controlling his alcohol intake yet.
But it's still not right of him to cheat on you so I'd say be angry at him but give him a second chance..
If anyone says that he knew what he was doing, then they can't scream rape if they were drunk and had sex with someone even if they claim they didn't know about it. He didn't know what he was doing, forgive him.
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Not an excuse. Dump his sorry ass!
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