Talk to him when he's sober, explain what he's says and does when he's drunk and how talks to you and how that makes you feel, remain calm, that is the most important thing, heightened emotions and yelling fixes nothing.
Personally in my opinion, this is what I would say if he jumped on the defence for his actions, I would simply tell him "if you can't understand how it makes me feel and work on it I don't think we have much more of a future together". It's not fair on yourself to stay with someone who makes you feel horrible. Love isn't enough, You need respect, a bestfriend, someone who builds you up and supports you're every decision.
But remember your his support too, remind him you'll help him in anyway you can to break this horrible habit of his.
No one has the right to put you down for anything, especially not the person you love and who is ment to love you. I've never been a big going out person, especially if it was a random invite at 11pm, like hell no, that's bed time 😴
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If he told you the way that he really feels, I wouldn't call that being disrespected. Would you prefer that he lie to you?
The problem is that he told you something that you don't want to hear and it is something to which you should respond. . . but you don't want to respond. That responsibility is on you, not him.
I don't understand what you're trying to ask here. The guy said something disrespectful because he is a disrespectful person.
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Yikes, I know a few guys on the thread are saying well he’s being honest but it doesn’t really make it acceptable to say when he’s drunk in a rant. It’s all about the context. I think you should have a conversation with him when he’s sober and ask him honestly if that’s how he really feels. If that is the case and you really want to make it work with him then you can ask and have a discussion about how you could spice things up but I would make it clear it’s not okay to say that to you when he’s drunk and tell him how it made you feel. Best of luck x
Sounds like the both of you are over it. Give him the boot. What is wrong with going out at 11pm on a Friday night? Stop being such an old lady.
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He is bored.
As they say, a drunk speaks a sober mind.
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