You won't get both sides of the coin unfortunately. I'm 20 he's 21.
My boyfriend was very quiet lately And he says things along the line of "I dont feel like talking about it rn dear" we've had a discussion before that I need to be patient and wait for him to answer. And I've been trying my best for the most of it and I said try your best to express yourself to me. But it was 3 days. and he keeps saying he doesn't want me to ask questions.
He says he was sick- has his reasons for not telling me. I asked why didn't you- and he said it was because he wanted to tell me after he was better. I told him that doesn't make any sense. I feel so distraught from this. He's had situation where he couldn't tell me his best friend's name even after we were together for a year. I found out he was hiding Instagram Storys from me twice (I had two insta accounts) and I didn't care about Instagram but the fact he was hiding it twice upsetted me. He said it was by accident but it happened twice? I don't have TikTok either and I looked him up on my computer and found he had one and was posting things. I was telling him how much I liked his hat and he got really angry at me telling me I was nosey and it was supposed to be a surprise.
We got into an argument and i was trying to ask what was wrong and he didn't want to tell me he was sick- and said I was nosey and I'm wondering if I'm actually being too nosey about these things or what to do.
feel hurt rn, and I don't understand. He's done things like this before where he doesn't tell me things that are very minor (at least to me) like his throat was hurt. I'm really confused.
I said somethings I shouldn't have after this. (Not insults, just saying wtf and fucking hell and I want to be alone rn. He said he didn't want to talk to me if I was acting this way and I felt annoyed because he insulted me while I was just saying fucking. I wanted to be left alone. An hour later he calls 3 times.
Im worried something else is going on.
