Girls, What am I doing wrong on tinder?

[Lukej044]

Hey everyone been using tinder for two months and only have 3 matches :/ ... I'm pretty much thinking of giving up on the dating game now because that sends a pretty clear cut message that you're ugly as F.

I don't know what to do?
These are the photos I'm using. And basically just state what sorta of work I do ,( which is a high income profession !)

[Lexi649]

First off your far from ugly your not the sexiest guy in the world but nothing wrong with that i give you a 8 here why most girls judge base not only how sexy but also how tough you look and you are hot but you dont seem like a tough guy more a gentle man and any girl would be lucky to have you unfortunately on these dating sites 9 times out of 10 girls are looking for a fuck buddy or a sugar daddy not a real commitment unless it involves money or you taking care of them with that being said there is absolutely nothing wrong with you from what i see i would totally date you

[Lukej044]

Haha thanks , it's funny people always said I was a contrast I use to play a grade rugby and could physically handle everything and smack a few people around but of the field , I've always had a calm personality and enjoy reading about animals history etc. :) thanks

[Lexi649]

So what are your strengths and what do you like for fun anyway😉

[Lukej044]

Well being fit and enjoy history and animals , Jesus Christ I work hard haha

[Lexi649]

Thats like American football right?

[Lukej044]

Similar , you have to pass the ball backwards , and there's no offensive defensive or special teams , you have 2 halfs which last 40 minutes, each players is given a position to play and the number you wear represents which position you're playing

[Lexi649]

All that stuff is cool and hey nothing wrong with working hard granted i just graduate culinary school but still you have goals thats great

[Lexi649]

I thought so i watched a few times when i was young my dad was stationed out over there for work i loved it i stay in cali now

[Lexi649]

Fyi im 23 not 83 can't figure out how to fix that so embarrassing

[Lexi649]

Aww i just read all the posts your going back to Europe to bad i would have loved to get to know you

[Lukej044]

Haha yeah I thought 83 was a little funny 😂 Yeah sure if you shoot me a message il link you to my Insta , leaving for the uk tomorrow :) so excited

[Lexi649]

Aww i can't message people yet no enough points

[Lexi649]

Do you have facebook or email

[Lexi649]

I honestly can't tell if your reciving my text so here's my facebook name lexi thompson also here's my email leilanilove649@gmail. com

[CuteVenus]

Honestly judging from your pics you seem sweet and u sound like a catch
in my opinion you're the type of guy that deserves true love
but the world is superficial and look wise you're a... classic and girls want pretty boys
and you work out
so u have a lot going for u
maybe just change the way u approach tinder or try the next cute girl u see in a bookstore
their loss tho

[Lukej044]

Thanks :) I just wish I didn't have red hair :( and be normal like everyone else

[Lukej044]

But thanks for the advice il take it , sorta at the point where I'm done with hook ups and meet a nice articulate lady :)

[CuteVenus]

😂 anytime and I get that feeling

[TacosRAwesome]

here's my advice if you want to keep trying tinder, looks wise you're not that hot. And since tinder is mostly based on looks hot guys get most attention, so if you're not hot you need to seem like the life of the party. Take photos where you're doing stuff, for example playing a sport etc. Photod against a wall are boring. If you seem fun you'll get dates.

[Lukej044]

Yeah no Brad Pitt haha , thanks for the advice , leaving for uk and Europe tomorrow so maybe that will help :)

[conniec6]

What she said!

[memento91]

Why don't you try meetup instead? Go to do things that you love and end up meeting someone in person and random that shares a common interest. sometimes online dating is not the solution. especially if it has not been working for you. Go out more.

[Lukej044]

Yeah that sounds like a much better idea , :)

[Lukej044]

Also leaving for Europe tomorrow, so I think that will be a much better way to meet new people 👌👌

[memento91]

Yesss tinder sometimes deceives cause people can lie!! Go to Europe engage in the things you must like and a good girl will come your way, also they say and it's true: you will never find it if you are looking for it

[memento91]

It kinda just happens when you focus on you and you least expect it

[weirdusername]

Being there is your first mistake, I was, people swipe on you and match but don't talk to you, say weird shit and don't message back, ask dumb questions and disappear smh, go out and meet people.

[Lukej044]

Noted 😊

[Marvelousadventures]

If it helps Ed Sheeran is Ugly AF! but so awesome id still marry him and have his babies. I would say to try to meet people in person tho.

[Lukej044]

Great ugly but without the talent :(

[Marvelousadventures]

There is someone for EVERYONE, if those people on "My 600 lbs life" can find an S. O So can you! Personality is redeemable and you have a nice body, and a good job. It may take you longer, but you don't have to quit the game. Just play to your strengths.

[Ayshea]

You look like Ed Sheeran and he's adorable!
Maybe try different app/sites, or try meeting girls in person.

[Lukej044]

Wish I could sing like him

[Pomegranate139]

Well your first problem is looking for a relationship on tinder. Try another dating app

[Lukej044]

Well I'm leaving for Europe tomorrow , think I'm going to get of it and meet people in real life :)

[Anonymous]

You again... i think i recalled u said you take cocaine. :P

Nothing creative about you in the intro section.

[Lukej044]

What's a good line to use? If I keep using this app? Haha

[Opinion Owner]

Ed sheeran 's long lost brother

[Anonymous]

try another online dating. apps or websites. u can find the best one

[Lukej044]

Might do that :)

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, but you're butt ugly, man. And when it comes to online dating, looks are all that matter.

[Lukej044]

Thanks :(

[BrittBratt2416]

Thats fucked up.. you are not ugly

[Opinion Owner]

@BrittBratt2416 lying to him is much more fucked up than being honest.

[BrittBratt2416]

Well it would be fucked up if i was lying.. the dudes not ugly.. its not like he freaking jaba the hut.

[Lukej044]

@BrittBratt2416 thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

@BrittBratt2416 nope, but he looks like Ed Sheeran, which is way worse than Jaba

[Lukej044]

I'm sorry I'm down and out but I get few people say I look like prince Harry then some ed Sheeran , then some say the main actor from outlander , or anyone who has red hair , but I accutally feel better you stated that because now I can see how easy it is for someone to sterotype based one one physical feature :)

[Opinion Owner]

Your face is too chubby to be similar to the inbred royal twat's. But then again, even if you were similar to him, the guy is fugly.

[BabyBirdy]

Take pictures NOT SMILING. Women like pictures of men with serious expressions whether they realize it or not. It appears to be more masculine

[BabyBirdy]

Also, take LOTS of selfies and find your best lighting and pose

[Anonymous]

Go on "whisper" app met so many more people on there than tinder. Been on afew dates at cafes, salsa dancing and even motorbike riding lol
Try it out

[Lukej044]

Under 18? Lol

Cool il have a look

[Opinion Owner]

Actually over but put in the details wrong lol oops
You can meet new people from the area when you travel around too. Everyone is happy to chat on there like gag

[Lukej044]

Yeah just think the latest comment answered my question :(

[Opinion Owner]

lol donr listen to them. i get people saying im either cute or not. beauty is in the eye of the beholder and you haven't found them yet

[Lukej044]

Thanks :)

[Glue-Sniffer]

Oh... is it 2014 again?

[Lukej044]

Been a while haha

[BrittBratt2416]

mmm I don't know, just keep trying maybe?

[Lukej044]

NAhh the other comment explains why :(

[BrittBratt2416]

dude don't give up... in my opinon online dating isn't that great.. if you really want to find someone you have put yourself out there and meet women.