Hey everyone been using tinder for two months and only have 3 matches :/ ... I'm pretty much thinking of giving up on the dating game now because that sends a pretty clear cut message that you're ugly as F.
I don't know what to do? These are the photos I'm using. And basically just state what sorta of work I do ,( which is a high income profession !)
Girls, What am I doing wrong on tinder?
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First off your far from ugly your not the sexiest guy in the world but nothing wrong with that i give you a 8 here why most girls judge base not only how sexy but also how tough you look and you are hot but you dont seem like a tough guy more a gentle man and any girl would be lucky to have you unfortunately on these dating sites 9 times out of 10 girls are looking for a fuck buddy or a sugar daddy not a real commitment unless it involves money or you taking care of them with that being said there is absolutely nothing wrong with you from what i see i would totally date you
Haha thanks , it's funny people always said I was a contrast I use to play a grade rugby and could physically handle everything and smack a few people around but of the field , I've always had a calm personality and enjoy reading about animals history etc. :) thanks
Similar , you have to pass the ball backwards , and there's no offensive defensive or special teams , you have 2 halfs which last 40 minutes, each players is given a position to play and the number you wear represents which position you're playing
Honestly judging from your pics you seem sweet and u sound like a catch in my opinion you're the type of guy that deserves true love but the world is superficial and look wise you're a... classic and girls want pretty boys and you work out so u have a lot going for u maybe just change the way u approach tinder or try the next cute girl u see in a bookstore their loss tho
here's my advice if you want to keep trying tinder, looks wise you're not that hot. And since tinder is mostly based on looks hot guys get most attention, so if you're not hot you need to seem like the life of the party. Take photos where you're doing stuff, for example playing a sport etc. Photod against a wall are boring. If you seem fun you'll get dates.
Why don't you try meetup instead? Go to do things that you love and end up meeting someone in person and random that shares a common interest. sometimes online dating is not the solution. especially if it has not been working for you. Go out more.
Yesss tinder sometimes deceives cause people can lie!! Go to Europe engage in the things you must like and a good girl will come your way, also they say and it's true: you will never find it if you are looking for it
Being there is your first mistake, I was, people swipe on you and match but don't talk to you, say weird shit and don't message back, ask dumb questions and disappear smh, go out and meet people.
There is someone for EVERYONE, if those people on "My 600 lbs life" can find an S. O So can you! Personality is redeemable and you have a nice body, and a good job. It may take you longer, but you don't have to quit the game. Just play to your strengths.
I'm sorry I'm down and out but I get few people say I look like prince Harry then some ed Sheeran , then some say the main actor from outlander , or anyone who has red hair , but I accutally feel better you stated that because now I can see how easy it is for someone to sterotype based one one physical feature :)
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