Girls, What am I doing wrong?

[Anonymous]

I know I'm not the most handsome guy in the world and I'm far from it, I've tried Tinder and while I get a few matches here and there, They don't talk to me... I've tried asking a girl out once and she ignored the message... What can I change to make myself "stand out" more to females? I'm not the typical guy to out drinking or clubbing...

I'm mid 20s, Never kissed a girl in my life,

[Anonymous]

Maybe try getting an app gearing towards dating. I know sometimes people have luck on tinder but it’s far and few between how many are just looking for casual hookups. That alone means people are judging you solely off your looks and the physical attraction they could feel, not looking past that too give you a real chance. I’d go as far to suggest investing in something, like eharmony or whatever paid apps are out there. You’re so much more likely to find potential that way. I know a woman who met her fiancé through Match and two of her friends met husbands. She’s an older woman in her 40s though so I don't know if that age range makes a difference but yeah.