What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

Robertcw
So I have been on Tinder for 2 years now. Over the course of 2 years I have had around 300 matches and have probably messaged about 2/3’ds ofy matches.

Many start conversations. But here’s the problem: I have never met up with a single girl off of Tinder on all my time using it.

Even now, I have around 100 matches and have around 7 ongoing conversations and they start out well and then flatline. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. So I’ve added screenshots here with names and photos of the girls blurred out because I am not trying to put anyone on the spot or anything like that. I am just legitimately bewildered at what’s going on.

So here’s some of my conversations:

girl 1:
What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?
Girl 2:
What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

Girl 3:

What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

Girl 4:
What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?
Girl 5:
What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?
Girl 7:

What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?

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So. There are others. But as you can see, I have tried different approaches. I have tried being sexually explicit, jokes, comments about a profile and sincerity.

They seem good at first. And then nothing becomes of them (some of them flop right at the start though, lol). So what’s the deal? How can I improve so that I can actually meetup with one of these girls (or more than one) IRL?

It’s starting to bother me.
What am I doing wrong with my Tinder messages?
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