Playful banter on Tinder, but I got a grave response?

[valianth]

Ok so I've been talking to this girl I met on tinder for a few days now. Earlier today, I was having some playful banter with her saying that I'm gonna slap her butt if she doesn't pronounce my name properly when I meet with her.

Note that I have yet to meet with her but wanted to seed the idea in her mind that it is very likely to happen.

Her response, was "Well i don't think youd ever meet me".

Is she saying that she is not willing to meet me or that I will not be willing to meet with her? I sure as hell am down, but I'm not sure what's on her mind. What do you guys think?

[KaySee]

Look at the proximity. If she's more than 3 miles away then the probably has a point. Not in a rude way she probably just realizes the chances are slim. Feel free to ask her does that mean she's not interested in meeting at all? If she says you're correct then it was over tinder anyway and you can just keep swiping!

[valianth]

I'm afraid of killing the vibe if I go about doing what you mentioned. It's the main reason I wanted a female opinion, which led me here.

[KaySee]

You might kill the vibe but i mean if she bluntly said you won't meet then how serious could this tinder romance be. You can either ask and get a straight answer so you can move forward. Or you can keep texting this girl until eventually one of you stops replying and then never know what went wrong

[MsAnthropist]

It's really hard to say for sure without inflection, but it sounds like maybe she's saying you wouldn't be willing to meet her. Does she have many full body pics that she's shared? She might have body issues.

[valianth]

It could be, she only has pictures of her face. I don't mind her looks at all, but could she be insecure about it?

[MsAnthropist]

She might be. She might be overweight and worried. I don't know. I think you should say something like, "So you don't want to meet up? Why not?"

It doesn't make sense to be on Tinder and not want to date. That's what it's for, right? I don't personally know how it works.

[becca123]

Hmm. My mind went about three directions of possibility but I think she might have been alluding to the fact that you haven't suggested a meeting yet. Maybe ask her what she means or suggest a meeting.

[BertMacklinFBI]

she didn't reciprocate the "playful banter" so im guessing you turned her off lol

[Anonymous]

She just doesn't think it will happen. Nothing more.