Signs a girl has a crush on another guy?

[Anonymous]

She won't tell him she's taken obviously, what are some other big signs?

[Lopezz1999]

Obvious signs
-You can effortlessly make her laugh
-She makes/breaks eye contact while smiling
-Stares at you from afar
-Playing with hair or fidgeting
-She hints you to ask her out
-Signs from friends (Her friends act differently or she does around friends when you're in her vicinity)

Subtle signs
-If she stares into your eyes without a smile along with a few obvious signs, this is a great sign
-She mentions sex
-She attempts to show you that you have competition with her
-She tries to get you alone with her
-She will act aloof, coy, or play hot and cold

[addictedtotea]

She won't stop talking about him, she will make excuses to see him often, she refuses to tell him she's taken, she gets antsy when you mention him, if he shows other women his attention she gets annoyed (a former friend who was cheating started treating me like shit when her crush had a thing for me), she gets mad at you for wanting her to tell him about im you, she makes excuses if you want to meet him, etc...

If she won't tell him she's taken then there is a reason. Sorry to say this but you might want to walk away and move on.

[Asker]

Why wouldn't a girl want to mention her boyfriend to another guy? What's the motivation and what are the chances she's attracted to him?

[addictedtotea]

It's not just girls. When someone in a relationship does that it usually leads to cheating or that person leaving the other. Not always but from my experience that's what I've seen. I think you should talk it out. Let her know it bothers you and find out if you should move on.

[Asker]

But if she wasn't attracted or thought the guy was a creep she would just mention the boyfriend?

Plus what can a girl do to save her relationship and not cheat, just cut off all contact with the guy?

[addictedtotea]

I can't exactly answer that because I don't know your girlfriend and everyone is different. Re read what you're asking me, you're trying to make excuses for her. Seriously talk to her, and if she can't respect you enough to tell the guy then make her a single woman and move on to someone who respects you.

[Asker]

What if I'm just a friend or even the other guy, what do those questions mean? Just to clarify, I'm not the boyfriend.

[addictedtotea]

If she's a good girlfriend she would tell him. She can save it by being open/honest with her boyfriend, cut off ties with the guy if there is something going on and to not cheat is to not put herself in that situation and keep it in her pants.

[Asker]

Is it normal for girls to cut off contact if they're attracted to the guy and are tempted to cheat but don't necessarily want to?

[addictedtotea]

I don't know. I've never been in a situation like this. I would assume if she loves her boyfriend she would cut off ties with the other guy.

[Asker]

Do you think she feels bad about doing that to the other guy? Like would she have feelings for him and think about him or probably not?

[addictedtotea]

No. Anyone who plays another person does it out of ego.

[Asker]

What do you mean? And what do you think she thinks of the other guy? And did it mean anything to her?

[addictedtotea]

Anyone who plays with another person's emotions doesn't do it because they like a person. They do it to feed their ego. Either she's playing the boyfriend, the other guy or both. Either way she's just messing with people's emotions and more often then not the other guy won't mean much. Sometimes it's the other way around.

[Asker]

So she's basically a narcissist?

What happens if the other guy is really good looking and her boyfriend isn't that good looking, is she just looking at the other guy as a sex object or something?

[addictedtotea]

Pretty much. Like I said I don't know her personally but usually when people do that sort of thing it's narcissism and selfishness. Their relationship might not be going well behind closed doors but she didn't leave him. She isn't telling her boyfriend about the other guy.

Beauty and good looks isn't the same for everyone. It might be because she likes the attention, or it's just sex.

Just look at her actions, they'll tell you everything.

[Asker]

So she was looking outside the relationship seeing what she could or couldn't get?

And what actions should someone be on the lookout for?

And do you think the friends know?

[addictedtotea]

Sorry, I don't know. It's pretty straight forward. If she's using you to cheat she's not worth your time. Move on.

[Asker]

Ok. If she thought he wasn't attracted or just wanted to be a good friend the boyfriend thing would have dropped asap right?

[addictedtotea]

No clue. I doubt it. Walk away it's not worth the trouble.

[natured]

She will always look for you, she will STARE at you, she will try everything to talk to you or sit next to you, especially SITTING next to you, she will touch her hair while she talks to you, and she will smile a lot when you are around, she will try and impress you, she will ask you many questions, she will find excuses to text you randomly.. these are some that i did when i was interested in a guy,, now i don't cuz i have my man lol. Good luck

[Asker]

Do girls think they're being obvious by trying to sit next to him and flirt away with him?

And what does it mean if a girl does all of those things but has a boyfriend she hasn't told you about?