Would you hook up with a hot guy you thought was 18 and it turned out he was 24?
And of course im talking about a one night stand not dating.
Also 16 is legal here so dont worry about that.
Well when it comes down to it, a 24 year old should not be looking to hook up with a young girl like that. I was recently assaulted by a 25 year old guy who I thought I knew so It would be very dangerous for a 16 year old to get involved in any way with someone who is 24 or older (even if he did look young)
Really I think there are enough 21+ hot girls who are willing to go home with you, so maybe you can leave the teenagers alone.
Honestly I'm. not trying to be a bitch but I think that's what sixteen year olds would do if the guy was good looking... but us as 16 year olds would get attached and feel good that a older guy was giving them attention. Ijust turned 18 and honestly It would matter how the guy looked because I go for guys who are to the age of 22... but I mean if a guy is 24 and sexy as hell than a one night stand wouldn't hurt
Just because its legal doesn't make it compatible. Tell me what on earth you'd have in common with a 16 year old whose not even out of highschool and won't be done for a couple more years.
We have nothing in common. I dont plan on dating them. Im only looking for a one night stand and so are the girls visiting the bar
ok well honestly just don't, they may feel important to you and in the future regret it
Yep just make sure you drop her off before at her parents house before 9:30pm because she has HIGH SCHOOL in the morning..
(Sarcasm. Dont ruin little girl !)
Lol.
Bruh what the fuck is wrong with you? Lmao. If you're creeping on 16 year olds then something is wrong with you. Do women your age notice how fucking weird you are? Maybe the 16 year olds are naive enough not to see how weird you are?
@JaneShame You can rationalize it whatever way you like. She is legal, that's true. Here is how I see it though. If he has sex with a 16 year old then he has 16 year old. The fact that is deliberately seeking out girls that are 16 is strange.
I dont creep on them, its them that always check me out and ogle me hard.
You're positioning yourself to be in an environment that 16 year olds are specifically at. Your intent is to go there to have with 16 year olds. They aren't just ripping off your clothes. You're making a deliberate effort.
Im not deliberately seeking out 16 year olds. I would literally hook up with anyone I find attractive and who finds me attractive.
How am I positioning myself in an environment where 16 year olds are at if this is a 21+ place? Its not my fault teens break the law to come here.
For that fact that you're asking this question. You see some young girls coming in and you got excited. Your default to these girls breaking the law is to think "wow, maybe I have a shot with them.. how do I go about this?"
I was fucking an underage chick at 19-20.. 16-17 for sure.. That's an acceptable gap but even with her, it just sort of happened. You're strategically planning on how to get laid by these girls in your head.
@JaneShame Okay Jane Shame, since you are the only person who will answer my question without judging me, when you were 16, would you hook up with a guy you thought was 18, but turned out to be 24?
@JaneShame You're talking to someone who has fucked at least 40 chicks at age 23. I'm not a prude. I get that. The thing is, if I had a daughter, then I wouldn't want her having sex with a 24 year old creeping at her with a bar. I understand that she will be having sex but there is a huge maturity gap right there. 16 year old girls are insecure and naive. He's going to be going out of his way to try and creep on these underage girls that are hitting a bar. Who's to say they are 16 and not 15?
No Im not planning to deliberately seek 16 year olds. Most of the girls I hook up at the bar with are 20+.
I just feel like I would score more often if I widened my net to include 16-18 year olds, especially since they are the ones most attracted to me.
You do you man. If it's legal then by all means who am I stop you? I get plenty of 16 year olds that hit on me in the gym. Yeah I have a girlfriend but even when I was single last year, I would casually flirt but I wasn't going out of my way to fuck them.
He is not creeping at anyone, these girls are willing and clearly show it with their actions. If you want to blame someone here, blame the parents for letting their daughters go into bars with fake IDs. If you would let your daughter do this, then don't you think you can only blame yourself for letting it happen?
I know they're 16 because they openly brag about their age and how they used a fake ID to come the bar. There are also some 14 and 15 year olds who come in with fakes who also ogle me, but I wouldn't even think about hookin up with them. And Im only attracted to the mature looking 16 year olds. Not the ones who blatantly look 16.
@JaneShame So your logic is to not take the moral route here but rather to capitalize on their parents mistakes? These girls are going into a bar illegally and both of your defaults are to capitalize and take advantage of their wrong doings. How are you even trying to rationalize this?
@JaneShame Stop talking to me like I'm a prude. I realize these girls aren't angels. Just because you're older doesn't mean I don't have any experience that trumps mine.
Im not trying to rationalize this. I dont care whether its moral or not. Its legal and thats all I give a fuck about.
Well there is nothing else to discus here then. That's the difference me and you. You don't care about morals. I do. Nothing I can do to change that.
the difference between me and you. **
Thats fine. My question was aimed at 16 year old girls, not you.
If that were the case, then you would of made the question only available to girls. You wanted people to validate your actions. You knew there would be opposition, hence why you felt the need to say this was legal. You wanted people to tell you it's fine so you can rationalize what you are doing in your head. To each their own dude. By all means, you do you.
I am just saying that you are putting too much pressure on the guy here, instead of the girls and the parents here which I think are the more responsible here. I think that any parent who judges the guy and ignores their daughters actions here is delusional and doesn't want to admit their wrongs, which is very hard to do. it's obvious those girls need to be taught a lesson.
@JaneShame I'm not a parent so this isn't applicable to me. The fact is that your default is to capitalize on bad parenting. That says something about your character. It has absolutely nothing to do with delusion, because again, I'm not a parent.
I never restrict any of my questions because I think valuable information can be gained from people who aren't the target group as well.
And I only mentioned it was legal so people would actually focus on the question at hand and not on the legal consequences.
Yes, you posted that she was legal for those reasons. I said exactly that. The fact is you needed to say she was legal because you knew there would be opposition. That's exactly what I told you.
"Thats fine. My question was aimed at 16 year old girls, not you."
"I never restrict any of my questions because I think valuable information can be gained from people who aren't the target group as well. "
These two quotes are in contradiction.
@JaneShame I'm entitled to my judgement just as you are entitled to yours. They might be at fault, but why are you telling him to capitalize on bad parenting? At 24, he is a grown ass man. They might be at fault but which one of them is more mature to make the right decision?
@JaneShame Who is more at fault is irrelevant though. He has the option to not partake. You were initially suggesting to the asker that he capitalizes on the parents wrong doings, yet you are saying he is at fault? You're not being consistent here.
Yeah my question was only aimed at 16 year old girls.
Just as a matter of practice, I never restrict any of my questions regardless of what they are about.
I didn't mention 16 was legal to justify my actions. I just did it so people will actually answer the question instead of focusing on the legal aspects of this.
Not trying to be rude here but just want to put my opinion here. If the situation is legal and both are consenting how is this a problem. I don't see it as capitalising on parents failure. The parents haven't failed because these girls get into bars illegally. You can't expect parents to control every aspect of their child's life especially a 16 year olds. I also don't understand how it is immoral for a 24yo to have sex with a 16yo. age doesn't dictate morality.
@humandisaster He stated they had fake ID's and it was illegal for them to get into the bar.
I understand that but the sexual situation is legal.
@humandisaster So in other words, he is capitalizing on their parents wrong doings, correct?
no. like I said I do not believe it is the parents wrong doing bc they can not control all actions of their child, especially a 16yo
@humandisaster If their kid has a fake ID and is out late nights drinking, then they aren't being good parents. Simple as that. No you can't control your their actions all the time but if you've let your kids slide past you to that extent, you're not a good parent.
Late nights drinking and fucking 24 year olds **
@JaneShame follow up questiob. Do you regret hooking up with 24 year olds when you were 16? Sorry if this is personal but I would like to jave a good idea on how 16 year olds will feel
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Lol I will be 21 in summer but I still feel like a teenager. Now imagine innocent and pure I was at 16. It is wrong for teenagers to have sex at all.
Well its a little late for that. I see these girls go home with guys every night. But they mostly stick to the 18-21 group.
No thanks. I'm 15 but it's pretty much the same thing as 16.
Even if you thought he was smoking hot?
Yup.
Nope. Why not just go for someone around your age? Hot or not, 16 seems a bit too young for a 24 yr old, especially if they still need fake i. ds to get in a bar.
I do go for girls my age but I can score more often and easier if I widen my prospective pool.
When I was 16 I looked on a 24 yr old guy as really old haha so I wouldn't have dated him.
Im not talking about dating. Im talking about one night stands.
wow. looks like you are not able to attract girls of your age even if you are hot.
I do but I look really young and girls dont like guys that look super young. Most girls 22+ aren't into me. I dont really have a problem attracting 20 -21 year olds but I attract 16 - 19 year olds more often and I would definitely have an easier time scoring if I included them in my prosepective hookup pool.
okay dude. no worries.
Find someone your own age. It isn't worth the trouble.
What trouble? im only looking for a one night stand not a relationship.
I'm 19 and I still feel that a 24 year old would be too old for me.
In that situation, I'd go with try and see what happens.
You need to find someone your own age...
I do. But I also want to widen my net.
Im open to hook up with anyone 16 - 99 as long as she's hot.
ew you are ew
Definitely! I'm 17 and would go for a 25 year old woman!
no thanks bye
What if he was smoking hot and looked 18?
What, and they dont let me in the bar. How unfair!
yeah I would if I was 16
You wish pedo
Lol.
What if he was smoking hot and looked 18?
Still no
Disgusting. The hell is wrong with you?
Its called biology son. You will learn about this when you get older
At least I'm not a pervert like you.
Dude don't go creeping on 16 year olds if your 24
He should not🙊
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