How to deal with player?

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clever_seeker Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35 , mho 58%

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play the same game! the game is only meant to be played never won.
the aim is not to win but to play till you get what you want.
Remember that a "player" and his "game" go hand in hand.
He has but one goal in mind he wants something of you, not from you in most cases. With that being said- "make him pay for what he wants" (not directly cause that would make him a client and you well... I'm sure you get the gist) a players time is just as valuable as yours. players love to deal. get what you want by making them worth the while.
by the way never smash his homie unless your trying to destroy his circle lmao

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torken Follow
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I'm not sure what a "player" is, seems like girls don't like them.

I guess its someone who uses women for sex but doesn't allow themselves to be involved with the girl in any more meaningful ways?

If that is the case, don't give the player sex. If you're slow to sleep with someone, you can probably weed out the players that way.

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smileyjam Follow
Xper 3 Age: 36 , mho 64%

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Once a player always a player. Been there done that. The best way to deal with a player isn't by actually being a player yourself. But by not being completely focused on him. Get out there, socialize with other men. Do not be completely available. Hope you move on. Easier said than done. But they are so emotionally draining.

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shellyp Follow
Xper 5 Age: 30 , mho 81%

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Stick strong to your values and boundaries and don't bend them for the guy

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- PineApple89
  
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  A good advise shellyp~ i wonder how long it would last for him to chase us if we stick to the 'boundaries'
  
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- shellyp
  
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  That really depends on you, it's not hard to make a "player" commit to you, it just takes a lot of patience on your part. Kind of funny that just yesterday I told someone if a player just walked through the front door be sure I just ran out of the back door because I have no time to play games
  
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ElissaDido Follow
InfluencerMaster Age: 30

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Give him a taste of his own game or don't play .

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- red324
  
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  cracks me up :)
  
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RSav4013 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 42

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Unplug the controller of the player that you want to lost and watch them get angry.

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GoodGuyBreakingBad Follow
Master Age: 57

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Sometimes when one wants to play mind games it's best to let them go.

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WriterAndPainter Follow
Xper 7 Age: 41

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End his/her game. stop giving them time and attention

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Leandri Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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You leave such guy alone, except if you wanna play him lol

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- SwolDishWasher
  
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  Silly female. You can't play a player lmao
  
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- Leandri
  
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  @SwolDishWasher ooohhh but I did lmfao, he did not take it too well though... ruined his whole rep
  
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- SwolDishWasher
  
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  No you didn't.
  
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- Leandri
  
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  @SwolDishWasher oh well he messed with the wrong one
  
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- SwolDishWasher
  
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  Im sure he did
  
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legalboxers Follow
Master Age: 49

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simple. You WALK AWAY. And I will call my own gender out of this. You want a relationship you dont act like a fucking douche

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- WildButterfly
  
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  👏👏👏 Standing ovation
  
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- micha72
  
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  Woooooohoooooo your a real man 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
  
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Anonymous
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I can't speak for women. But if it's a "female player" I just nail her and go. I never spend any money on her. Except maybe the first time - so I can nail her and go.

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- Anon1256
  
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  You mean "slut".
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  @Anon1256 Yes. Slut will suffice but more like gold digger. Trying to play me for money/goods/$ervice$.
  
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Yanoa_Yanza Follow
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You don't date them if you're looking for a relationship

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LTLFLEA Follow
Xper 3 Age: 56

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Don't waste your time or your energy! Nothing but a headache and stress.
Keep it moving!!!

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karahiri Follow
Master Age: 35 , mho 35%

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you don't. extricate yourself from his world.

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ThisDudeHere Follow
Master Age: 30 , mho 33%

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By not associating with him.

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qwert1234 Follow
Yoda Age: 38

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You don't deal with them. You ignore, and move on.

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TacosRAwesome Follow
Master Age: 35

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Either play better or forfeit.

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razor97 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 24

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don't deal with him, he might be ugly

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Anonymous
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Don't hang out with one.

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Anonymous
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You fuck them over real bad!!!

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SwolDishWasher Follow
Xper 7 Age: 34

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You dont play

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- PineApple89
  
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  Then wat?
  
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- SwolDishWasher
  
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  There is no then what. You walk away. And continue to live the rest of your life unused.
  
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redxiii74 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 109

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don't

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BeastRB Follow
Yoda Age: 26

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Step 1: don't

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Anonymous
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Simple... Don't.

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