Does my boyfriends step sister potienally like him?

[Anonymous]

she sent a text message of her in a penguin onesie, No caption, nothing with the picture? He didn't reply. she texted him few days later "Justin Call me I have to tell u something it's nothing bad ok? she texted him again a few days later saying"what is my best friend doing (talking about my son) and he said sleeping, she said can you give him a kiss for me, he said I will and she said aww? I checked the time and my boyfriend didn't even have my son at the time she sent the text and then when I asked him why did she send him a picture of her? why did he say that if he knew he didn't have the baby? he said what was he suppose to say to that text of her asking about him, He said that Denise (her mom) got her that for Christmas and that the phone call was about a house warming party i said why does she have to send you a picture? With no caption nothing? What does the joke have to do w/ u? I started breaking down what I thought about her he got silent and cldn't think of what to say about her. i told Jamie I seen the picture why she thought she had to send him it, she didn't reply back to me and called Justin. I asked what she said, she apologiez and tried play it off trying to take the guilt off of herself. I texted her saying u can call Justin but not to me? She ingored my message, but she was watching my instagram story, I called her and she asked what the fuck was my problem. She said I shouldn't be going through my boyfriends phone and called me a bitch. I flipped and told her she was fucking weired& hanged up the phone. Two days past and she has still been watching my instagram? I took proof and I showed him but if he thought what I was thinking was crazy wldn't he have broken up with me for raising such an issue? I haven't seen any messages from her on his phone since I questioned her.

[That1tallguy]

she's just his step sister not his mistress chill out. they're probably close and view each other as brother and sister whats wrong with that let them talk. I would be upset too if you questioned me like that, i probably wouldn't even feel like I should explain myself. tbh you sound like the jealous and insecure type you need to learn to trust your boyfriend and respect each other's privacy.
if you can't even do that don't expect the relationship to last with out trust you have nothing

[Asker]

They weren't talking. He never texts her? This was out of the blue and i didn't question her angrily I came at her with respect and she cussed me out.

[Asker]

She even stayed out loud to me before that he never replies to her so that's proof from her as well they don't talk

[That1tallguy]

so even if she does like him romantically but he never text her whats the problem. example if some guy hits on my girlfriend but she doesn't flirt back then they should be no problem , if she entertains him that's diffrent but that's not the case.

[That1tallguy]

trust that he can handle it him self snooping through someone's phone is not cool that's a lack of respect. if some girl went through mine with out permission I would be upset even if I didn't have anything to hide that's invading privacy

[Dingsbums]

Very interesting story but yes u do come across as a little bit crazy. Just mind your own business

[Asker]

Well I wanted to write more about what happened but the characters are only 2,000 so I had to write leading up to that point

[Dingsbums]

U need to learn how to summarize stuff. Ain't nobody reading all that

[Asker]

It's difficult to summarize when more than one thing has happened in this subject and you can only work with 2,000 characters.

[Dingsbums]

U can summarize a whole book in just some sentences

[Asker]

No you can't and this story isn't a book.

[Dingsbums]

Believe what u want to. Just wanted to improve your writing skills but who cares I'm out of this convo

[Asker]

I agree. But you can't even summarized a whole book in a movie an that's longer.

[natured]

This is something that you should clearly speak about with both, the step sister and him, i understand that you are struggling but you are also freaking out instead of taking things easy, don't loose control of yourself and your emotions it's not worth it.

Try to put some water on the fire and try to calm down, if there would be anything MORE between them you would obviously see, but he kinda ignored her so don't worry about it...

[bc1989]

he'll end up dumping you over this if you're not careful, that is his SISTER! how dare you tell him how they can and can't contact each other. you should be ashamed of yourself

[Asker]

That's not his sister. That his stepsister and they share no blood.

[bc1989]

So.. that's still his sister. I would be irate if anyone tried to tell me how/when I could contact my family

[Asker]

That's you , my boyfriend wasn't not upset.

[Asker]

And I didn't tell him where and when he can contact her

[bc1989]

you're annoyed because she sent him a picture of her in a onesie.. get a grip

[Asker]

There was no reason for the picture to be sent. I wouldn't send a picture of myself to a family member unless it had intention.

[bc1989]

honestly if i bought something a bit out of the ordinary I might send a picture to my friends or sisters. guess what my sisters aren't full sisters, guess what they're still my family, guess what my only intention would be to show them the item, no one needs to explain themselves to someone with your level of crazy

[Asker]

Guess what if I bought something and I were to send it to a family member there would be a reason and there would also be a text with that message saying why I sent what I had sent. She had no intention to send the picture or a caption with it. No reason to send a picture to somebody who had no connection with her picture.

[bc1989]

You're absolutely crazy

[Asker]

Then why did you reply

[bc1989]

because I felt sorry for your boyfriend

[oldoldold]

nope she's gone underground and is now plotting to take him away from you in a way you will never find out about

[RichTheC]

Sounds like you're reading into it too much

[Leandri]

I would bitch slap her lol... what a bitch she is

[Sha84]

you drove her to competition for him with your negative attitude

[Asker]

I wasn't negative in any way. I didn't drive her to send him a picture or to cuss me out.

[Anonymous]

Yes and I think he likes her too