Ok, there is this guy who some people say they think he likes me since he asked about me one day when I didn't come to something (he asked where I was and why I didn't come) and he asked my friend if I was going to a party that he would be at last weekend. He is really nice to me too, interested in what I do, and we have a lot in common. Me and him are a year apart, and at the function we both went to, he was talking to my YOUNGER sister and was telling her that she needs to start doing this sport we are both into. She is like 4 years younger than him, but I still felt jealous that he wanted her to take up this hobby and was talking to her, even though he knows me better and just met her for the second time. He was bragging about how good I was at the sport we play to a friend of his at the party saying "Yall better watch out for her, she can hit the target and is hitting the far ones" and gave me a hug when I saw him. So now I don't know if he is interested in her or was just being friendly to her or if he is interested in me? For all you guys out there, am I making a mountain out of a mole hill or what? Do you do this to someone you like or just to be nice/friendly? I really like this guy and we have a lot in common, he is only a year older than me, so I don't know what to do! Help!
Does he like me or my sister?
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I'd say that if you really want to know what is up with him, do two things. \
I. Talk to your sister, and find out if she has an interest in him. If she does, then you know that you need to be on your toes, and be aware that you can't let this guy destroy your kinship with your sister. If not, then don't worry about it and go on to part II
II. Let him know you are available. He doesn't seem to get it yet. He, like many of us, is dumb as a toaster when it comes to noticing subtle things. Throw it out there for him, and let him know that you want him. You won't be disappointed if he knows your desires.
No my sister is not interested in him...she said to someone at the party that these guys are a lot older than her and they are more my age...also he has some tattoos and she hates tattoos. I was trying to let him know that I am into him by trying to be around him, talking to him, and when I was walking out he said, "Bye girl," and I hit him on the leg and winked at him.
Well then, it seems like all you can do is wait for him to ask you out. Keep letting him know that you are available, and hope for the best. You've done what you can, and now either you need to wait for him to ask you out, or If you are feeling bold, you can ask him out. It does not sound like he'd object.
Are you sure that your guy wasn't just trying to make conversation with your younger sister? I wouldn't worry until after your guy starts including your sister more often, for example inviting her to every single thing.
Could be. She facebooked him and said "I'm _____ sister and was just wondering if you were going to be at the party? " Then there she was holding someones baby and he came up to her and was talking to the baby and then said to her that she needs to come to this place we go. I don't know what to think!
Omgosh!!!!! of coarse he likes you!!!!!! he was just being nice to your sister!!!