Is my boyfriend attracted to his sister?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He's made it very clear that he loves my butt (it's pretty large) and is always talking about how nice it is, how much he loves grabbing it, etc.

However, about 4 times throughout our relationship he has compared his sister's butt to mine. He will send me snapchats from her story of butt selfies she takes and he'll be like "my sister has a big butt just like you". Recently, he told me that his sister was nominated to be voted for "best butt in the school" at her high school and he told me that he thinks she'll win because "She's pretty so she attracts a lot of guys".

Do you think he is just comparing my butt to his sister's as a way to bond with me? Or is this something i should be alarmed about? I'm feeling very conflicted so any opinion would be appreciated!

[luvstoned4him]

No, he isn't into his sister, that would be disgusting. I think this is what you call "DOTTING". He is proud of his sister: her large butt, her accomplishments etc and the fact that she can get guys (his buddies probably think its nice too and talk) .

That is fine but I dont agree with the fact that he is comparing hers to yours. He should just appreciate them both. Some guys go for women who have physical attributes that are dominant in their families. e. g I have a friend who wants thick women because all his sisters n mom are thick and so forth.

[luvstoned4him]

thanks for mho

[mrdrawesome_esquire]

It might seem pretty strange of a guy to be talking about his sisters butt so much. But it seems to be normal, since brothers and sisters can have a very open/connected relationship with no sexual feelings

[bilal123s]

alarmed, who the hell talks about his sister's butt to strangers, really wrong