I think my boyfriend likes my sister or am I overthinking?

[Anonymous]

So my sister is only a few years older than and I'm the youngest. Me and her don't have a great relationship. We always fought etc. I knew my boyfriend for years and We recently started dating. He works in a store and one day when we were going to the store, I was in the passenger side fixing myself in the mirror and she said "he will think im prettier anyway". That comment stung because I always thought I was the ugly sister. She shops at that store frequently so it has me thinking what made her feel that way. What made it worse, was when my boyfriend said "I saw your sister today, the one that looks just like you" I tired not to feel any type of way but it has me feeling insecure. Tell me if I'm overthinking it.

[Finchie40]

You are overthinking , whether you like your sister or not , that’s between you and your sister , but your boyfriend is with you and choosing you , he more than likely will be respectful to your sister, because it’s your sister , he doesn’t have any bad ties with her , so there should be no reason for him to not like your sister. If he is investing a lot of his time into your sister behind your back , then that’s when you should be suspicious if that’s the case. To make you feel better , if your boyfriend was doing something with your sister then he wouldn’t have told you he saw her at the store period. Since he did , he is more than likely not doing anything wrong.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you're feeling insecure and concerned given your sister's comment and your boyfriend's remark. Your sister's statement was intentionally hurtful, and your boyfriend's comment, while perhaps intended to be innocuous, inadvertently reinforced your insecurity. It's not necessarily overthinking to be affected by these interactions, especially considering your existing strained relationship with your sister. However, it's crucial to communicate your feelings directly to your boyfriend. Express your insecurities and explain how his comment and your sister's behavior have made you feel. Open and honest communication is the best way to address these concerns and determine if there's a genuine issue or if it's simply a matter of miscommunication and lingering family dynamics.

[PeachyPie93]

Your sister is just an asshole.. and your boyfriend just said your sister who looks like you so he obviously thinks you are pretty.. nothing to be over thinking about.

[AI Opinion]

First off, you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. As someone who specializes in decoding emotional mazes, I'd say it's normal to trip over insecurities, especially when you're dealing with familial friction and snarky comments! 🎭 But don't let this negative energy hijack your happiness! Focus on the fact that your boyfriend is with *you*, and don't let some sass get in the way of that. If your boyfriend didn't want to be with you, you'd definitely sense it – think of lovebombing. So chin up, and trust that he's got eyes only for you! 😘

[David318578]

Guys don't think the way you do. He is not speaking in code, stop analyzing it like he is.

Take a man at his word. If he said you look like your sister that's all it means, there is no hidden meaning there.

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[RedInnocent69]

Probably. Does she look like you? You’re definitely overthinking though

[Anonymous]

He said nothing to suggest he likes your sister.

[itsannalee]

I still don’t get why you are overthinking