me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and known one another for 4 years. i have a twin, she's not identical& quite pretty.
whenever we meet, he always prefers to come round my house (my parents love him), and i'm scared that he may like my sister& that's why he always wants to come round. round the 1st year of dating we'd always go round his, but now we always go to mine & his excuse is 'i haven't cleaned my room'.
in general, he's a lovely guy. i know he cares about me deeply etc.
my sister always comes in my room when he's there and talks. they joke around and my boyfriend often insults her as a joke like calls her stupid. this often winds me up and makes me jealous so i tell her to go (i like spending time with him on my own, and she just sits and talks for ages).
the other day i asked my sister what she thought of my boyfriend and she said he was flirty. i then got mad and upset and she said 'oh no i meant he just jokes around a lot'.
i know they don't talk on text or anything, whenever she posts a picture he doesn't like it. but, we have a group chat on facebook with me, my boyfriend, my sister and another friend and i get jealous when she says anything in the chat as i know he will reply.
i don't know if i'm being paranoid. i can't honestly tell if he's flirting with my sister or just joking around.
e. g. in the group chat my sister accidentally sent a picture of our dog, and she said 'sorry i didn't mean to send that' and my boyfriend quickly replied 'can i forgive you? mmm, no'.
i know he jokes to his male friends and calls them names as a joke, and he does that with my sister. he's never said anything to me directly that made me think anything.
what do i do? i don't know if i'm going crazy.
im 18 by the way.
whenever we meet, he always prefers to come round my house (my parents love him), and i'm scared that he may like my sister& that's why he always wants to come round. round the 1st year of dating we'd always go round his, but now we always go to mine & his excuse is 'i haven't cleaned my room'.
in general, he's a lovely guy. i know he cares about me deeply etc.
my sister always comes in my room when he's there and talks. they joke around and my boyfriend often insults her as a joke like calls her stupid. this often winds me up and makes me jealous so i tell her to go (i like spending time with him on my own, and she just sits and talks for ages).
the other day i asked my sister what she thought of my boyfriend and she said he was flirty. i then got mad and upset and she said 'oh no i meant he just jokes around a lot'.
i know they don't talk on text or anything, whenever she posts a picture he doesn't like it. but, we have a group chat on facebook with me, my boyfriend, my sister and another friend and i get jealous when she says anything in the chat as i know he will reply.
i don't know if i'm being paranoid. i can't honestly tell if he's flirting with my sister or just joking around.
e. g. in the group chat my sister accidentally sent a picture of our dog, and she said 'sorry i didn't mean to send that' and my boyfriend quickly replied 'can i forgive you? mmm, no'.
i know he jokes to his male friends and calls them names as a joke, and he does that with my sister. he's never said anything to me directly that made me think anything.
what do i do? i don't know if i'm going crazy.
im 18 by the way.
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