What do I do if Im not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore?

[Anonymous]

Im not physically attracted to my girlfriend anymore. She's a loving and a genuinely great person, but i just dont want to sleep with her. I find myself daydreaming about other girls and not getting hard like i used to when i think about her. I haven't told her because she's a crybaby (that used to be cute but now i can't stand it). Do i tell her im not attracted to her? Do i break up with her? I can't ask her to work out and excercise because it'd be for selfish reasons and id feel horrible. What would you do or what should i do?

[DaniaMQ]

If you're gonna feel horrible then You should feel more horrible for wanting to break up instead of feeling horrible about telling her to workout tbh. There's nothing wrong with telling her to work out. You can BOTH workout together, why not? Talk with her about it dont just keep it in. You can probably figure something out together. Tell her to take more care of her health coz its something important.

[Asker]

So its okay to ask that of her? Because my boy had a girlfriend for 2years and he asked her to go to the gym with him and she went hysterical. If i have to end my relationship i want it to be on good terms and not a fight.

[DaniaMQ]

Honestly, its stupid if a girl freaks out just coz her boyfriend asked her to workout. For me, if my boyfriend asked me to workout I would be actually feeling good about it. Coz "Yay!! We can both get our idol bodies and we would motivate each other with it!! ". Thats how I see it. Now when you talk with her, dont use harsh words. Be gentle with words lol. And YOU work out with her as well so that she would feel better about it, and you cab work on your body too. And let her understand that there's nothing wrong with working out together, its fun!

[DaniaMQ]

About your friend tho. If he said it in a nice way and all then its kinda stupid from the girl to overreact. But if he was like "You're fat and your body sucks, I always think of other girls coz I'm not attracted to you anymore"... he's a jerk if he did that. So don't do THAT or anything similar when you talk

[Asker]

Okay. ill sit her down and talk to her about it. Thank you so much.

[DaniaMQ]

My pleasure! :) if you need any help afterwards feel free to message me, I'll be happy to help

[XRabbitHeartX]

Just break up with her please. So that she can find a guy who appreciates her and thinks she is hot.

Would you like having a girlfriend who is secretly turned off by you? Probably not, so just end the relationship as soon as possible.

[kidyellow]

I was in exact same situation as you. I felt horrible when I broke up with her because she didn't do anything wrong. But I knew I did the right thing by breaking up with her. She deserved someone who actually found her attractive. You should do the same. I don't think trying to make things will do much.

[savagelyfe0612]

I'd talk about it to at least figure out what happens next on both ends. The fact you're considering a break up means this might be a deal breaker and probably one on her end as well. Just man up and talk to her.

[Browneye57]

Time to move on. Cut her loose to find someone else. This isn't fair to either of you.

[lord_chilled]

you need to break up then. thats unrealistic at your age.

[1Phillion]

Tell her. An talk about being friends.