My girlfriend isn't as considerate or Romantic as me, am I wrong for feeling this way?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this girl for 1 year now and in that year I've always done romantic and sweet things for my girlfriend, I write her love letters and surprise her with picnics and surprise dates to concerts and sports events. Now i get that she is still a student so I don't expect large things in return, but when cash is low on my end I do simple things like make her long in depth meaningful music playlists or write her poems. She never does anything like this for me though? Is it that she doesn't love me enough to
Care? I always thought that girls were supposed to be the more sweet and sentimental gender, was I wrong?

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[uhthrasher]

I think you're being too nice, maybe she just is used to it and forgets to appreciate it? I don't think one person should be the nicer one in a relationship, especially if you're not getting anything back. She's just gonna get over it because she already thinks she has you wrapped around her finger. Just be careful.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she just doesn't know how to be more romantic?
This is my 1st relationship and it took me almost 1 year to "learn" how to be more romantic, but now it just comes naturally.
But if you feel like she doesn't really care, sit down and discuss this issue.

[skylimetoon]

when people think about what they want from a significant other they don't think about what they can give. maybe she's more of a taker than a giver.

[Blackdiamond09]

Your girl is a piece of shit, try other girl and you will find this one was not worth it

[Svenjorn]

Although it sounds odd is it possible that she doesn't like these surprises and is trying to give you a hint.