I'm into DDLG and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend?

[shmmkk]

Its kind of an awkward topic and i feel like he's gonna think its weird

[Woodlandgnome]

Oooooooo, that's a tough one. That's like telling your loved one you're into BDSM; they don't exactly make a Hallmark card for that.

I would advise that the two of you sit down in a relaxed, non-threatening environment and start by saying something like, "Sweetie, you know how much I love you, right? And that you would be willing to try anything to make me happy? Well, and please, don't freak out until I explain this to you, but. . .", and go from there.

[youngZavage]

basically there is something that every guy would say yes to if you formulate it right itll be ok start by saying what nickname should i give you and be like ill call you daddy trust me he will say yes then he would want to give you a nickname too so tell him to call you babygirl and then it is automatically a DDLG even if he doesn't know it

[shmmkk]

smartt

[youngZavage]

hah good luck :)

[VibezR]

not every guy wants to be called "daddy" personally I'd find it weird af

[youngZavage]

@VibezR i dont think if your girlfriend suggests that that you would mind

[VibezR]

@youngZavage actually I would mind, I've talked about it with people before I'd find it weird but that's just me some people would love it.

[Goodwifie]

You will be amazed when you both open up about what it is that you both like to do in the bedroom.
You could make up a questionnaire for both of you to answer.
Even write down your fantasies because saying them can be really hard.
I've done both with my husband of 11yrs just recently and our sex life has improved so much.
There have been been things that never thought I'd do and it's made our love life exciting again.

[Kitten967]

Just try to talk to him about it. Tell him how it makes you feel and tell him to do research on it so he can see its not just about calling you daddy and doing it during sex. It's more about him looking after you and treating you like a child.

[Robin-E]

Just start a talk about kinks, ask if he has any weird ones and if you accept his he is much more likely to accept yours. You won't know until you talk about it :)

[shmmkk]

ok good idea

[Robin-E]

What would you do if he said he had a weird kink? (pegging or public sex or something)

[Justin85283]

then its your lucky day

[ItsAMeWeirdo]

Ok so you have a fetish for your father. That's why people keep calling there boyfriends daddy

[shmmkk]

no, i do not. It is not in any way so sort of father daughter fetish. it is a a form of a dominant/submissive relationship

[ItsAMeWeirdo]

Oh so that sadist and masochist stuff. That's cool, my fetish is watching people get tortured and I scare the living shit out of them.

[NullNight]

First of all, no reason to be nervous, like... At all. I've seen people fucking mules because they couldn't fuck women. So... Yeah, you're not the worst out there. And second, if he can't understand something as simple and important as this, rethink.

[MountainGirl95]

Someone here told me about it yesterday and sent me some tumblr pages. I'm a bit curious about it now, lol!

[Cress]

It's gradually getting more and more normalised so just tell him. If he cares about you, I'm sure he won't mind.

[honeydrops]

just be honest. if you're not happy and you're not into sex without it, he'll be unhappy too

[I-am-a-nobody]

It's an awkward topic, because it's weird.
If I'm in his shoes, i'd think you have daddy issues.

[abc3643]

So, how is a guy who will entertain your DDlg fetish supposed to act or say to best turn you on?

[Intraluminal]

To what degree are you into it? What would you want him to do exactly?

[Anonymous]

That's a Latina thing. I don't know what's wrong with them

[3timesaday]

Daddy dominate little girl, sounds kinky I would be down lol just talk too him.

[chuy10]

what is it you like doing just curious? and tell him he might like it

[Anonymous]

just tell him, he either understands or he doesn't but either way you get to know whether you can explore your kink. if he doesn't maybe it would be best to move on so you can explore it

[Anonymous]

Just start doing ddlg stuff with him gradually over time.

[Lithium65]

have you called him daddy before?

[shmmkk]

no i haven't

[Lithium65]

start there, and see how he likes that. build up to it, do just blurt it out at once. that's too risky

[shmmkk]

that isn't too random?

[Lithium65]

I mean, call him daddy "in the moment" during sexy talk while being flirty

[shmmkk]

🙈im nervous I don't know why

[Lithium65]

don't force it. if you're being flirty in a text , just throw it out there. likely he'll be ok with it

[shmmkk]

ok, thankyou

[eagle1951]

hmmmm do you think he would go for that?

[shmmkk]

i really dont know

[eagle1951]

guess you need to tell him and find out.

[Billy0563]

What is DDLG.

[ItsAMeWeirdo]

Basically that her boyfriend is a caregiver like her dad

[Anonymous]

feel free n talk to him about it

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Wtf is that?

[DizzyAster]

What is DDLG?

[DizzyAster]

Ok, I found out.
So, just tell him. He'll probably be into it.

[Justin85283]

What is DDLG?

[Woodlandgnome]

Daddy Dom/Little Girl