How do I tell my boyfriend i'm into ddlg?

[Anonymous]

I'm secretly a little and really into ddlg. I love little space. I don't really have much stuff Becasue i still live with my family but i don't know how I'm going to tell my boyfriend i am into it and i want to live that lifestyle. I sent him a text saying that i really want a paci and he said it was weird and kinda messed up but i said wrong person and made an excuse that he luckily believed. I love him and i want him to be my daddy dom. I already call him daddy but not really in a casual way. I just don't know what to do. Only my best friend knows I'm a little. I want to live my life with him but i want to be a little with his as my daddy dom.

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+1 y

Just saying- yes he likes when i call him daddy but like mainly only in sexual situations. I weirdly want him to like baby me and for me to be his little princess. Like he doesn't mind when i call him daddy out of sexual things but I don't know, sometimes he'll just think I'm horny or something when i say it.

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+1 y

Okau so today i told him that i have a kink, ddlg. I kinda explained it, not really the little parts and little space and such but he was like dontcha think that's kinda weird? I just feel like he hates the idea of it.

[SkipStop]

I would only accept that in sexual situations. The whole "Daddy" thing was made as a sexual kink or whatever you wanna call it. I don't think it's for everyday use. If you want to know his opinion or thoughts then you will have to ask directly. He probably won't understand any of your "Hints". And since you two are a couple, you have to respect each others boundaries.

[skittles2017]

Tell him straight... set the rules and explain him how serious and how much this means to you and he should be able to do it for you

[skittles2017]

Slowly and with small steps introduce this into his life and see how it goes

[pitzi]

If he doesn't mind you calling him Daddy sometimes already... I think you could tell him... I don't think he is much against that thing

[GreedyGiver651]

I'd say be honest about it, and come to that discussion with a reason and what you want out of it. Unfortunately, it's shamed by some people, especially due to stereotypes. But it's a pretty in depth dynamic when done correctly and is one of my favorites. Talk about how you can both benefit, how it's not all sexual, and how much fun it will be. Even with all that, keep in mind he might still reject it, and as unfortunate as that is, it can't be forced.

[hindril]

I wouldn't do it. Some people like it. If you both really like each other, then come to a mutual understanding. Maybe meet halfway? If you really want, just do a little with him and add a little more each time to see if he is into it. I had a girlfriend call me daddy. I had her stop calling me that because I am not her dad.

[hindril]

Again, if you want add a little more when you have sex. A little more of what you are wanting. Also, be mutual. Add more of what he wants also. Maybe there is a way to combine both?

[Deannabear]

ddlg isnr a dad or daughter thing tho if girl calls boyfriend daddy it again aisnt anything dad or duaghter about it, it dont mean they see there boyfriend as their dad (hard to expline)

[Yawn_Yawn]

It's weird to me, but whatever floats your boat. You just can't criticize him if he is not into it, if you don't want people to criticize you for being into it. Reciprocity works that way. Give a little, get a little.

[lemmingj]

Just tell him what you want. I don't know about other guys but I generally try to make my woman happy.

[Asker]

I just fear he won't like me anymore, lose intrest, or think I'm disgusting

[lemmingj]

Littles are the most vanilla of thing you could be. I don't know what you're so worried about.
It's not like you're asking him to get into diaper kinks.

[johnmichaei]

As a dominant Southern gentleman he may not understand that so you may have to find you a daddy on the side to take care of that side of you

[edgyfox]

You ask his opinion on it and if he doesn't react badly you say that you're curious to try it.

[Joshy651]

I wouldn't do it if i was your boyfriend.

[Johnnie1000]

No other way than to tell him.

[Johnnie1000]

I'm glad you added on to you question. I know better what you were saying and I think it is different guys likes or doesn't like. Not a good or bad thing but more of a choice to partisipate. he may love it during private time but feel uncomfortable in public. Maybe he doesn't what other people to feel that he enforces it on you or that he really just doesn't think it sounds sexy around others. Shyness or he wants to be the submission rather than you. You will have to explain in terms of how sexy this is for you and how its special that he be your Daddy. I could see where this could become a burden if you want to be a princess that needs attention iness there is a payoff for him, Sexually or other way.

[Demised]

What's a ddlg?

[Asker]

Daddy dom/little girl. It's a dominant/sub kink where the sub is a little. It can be sexual or not but the little acts very very young, wears onesies, has binkies, childlike things, etc. I'm not good at explaining it so if you'd like further explanation you could look on urban dictionary or something

[Demised]

Call him a Master and see his reaction then.

[Asker]

He'll probably just think it's hot and kinky then not think anything else of it other than the fact that he has dominace over me

[Demised]

Its a good thing, right?

[Asker]

Yeah but i just don't think it screams ddlg 😂

[Demised]

Do some cosplay then.

[Demised]

He'll get use to it. Don't worry.

[mrArcher]

Oh, God...

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[mrArcher]

I dunno, I just think it's weird.