How do I tell my boyfriend I am an abdl?

[ChibiCuddle]

Adult Baby Diaper Lover. I love being babied and wearing diapers.

[laurieluvsit]

Did you tell him yet?

There is nothing wrong with it. It is just one of many fetishes others have.

I don't have that fetish but my sisters, and I, do wear diapers on occasion for practical purposes, like when we are at movies or live theater where we don't want to get up and bother anyone or miss parts of it.

Most who find it abhorrent don't realize that most use for adult diapers is for urination not pooping in. Urination in an adult diaper does not stay against the skin as the diaper is designed to bring it away from the skin so it is not nasty and dirty as some think it is.

Adult diapers are also good for going to large events where the lines may be long or the bathrooms may be filthy or even dangerous to enter like at night. Musical concerts, large theme parks and fairs are just some examples.

But even your fetish is ok and many have that one.

Best wishes. I hope your boyfriend has accepted you as you are Ms Chibi! :)

[Anonymous]

Do you just wear them or like actually shit on them

[ChibiCuddle]

Eww. I don't poop in them, just pee. Pee is sterile.

[Praec]

Eh, a large part of me wants to say to just keep that particular hobby to yourself. You shouldn't be shamed for a kink, but think most men will draw the line at their partner acting like an infant; being able to remain attracted to that must make him feel like a borderline pedophile, and once you get into the piss territory (I see you say that you don't shit in the diaper) you're going to lose most people.

[ChibiCuddle]

I do it in private. But what if he accidently sees me doing so?

[wetlookLover]

I'm also have a fetish that most girls aren't into, I have tried to open up about it to many girls and list a lot. Personally I'd ask him to confess his deepest fantasy to you, that way you can cause how only he is and judge whether he might be into it or not?

[ChibiCuddle]

I guess I could do it during a game of truth or dare... maybe.

[wetlookLover]

How probably doesn't matter that much, if he's into it or willing to try is all that matters. But if you feel more comfortable during a game of truth then go for it. Hope you have more luck than u did hunni!

[ChibiCuddle]

Okay. What is your fetish then?

[wetlookLover]

Is that a Truth question? 😁

[ChibiCuddle]

Yeah. I guess. I won't judge.

[wetlookLover]

LoL. I like to wear smooth shiny dresses, the right wetlook kind. Satin, PU Dresses etc...

[ChibiCuddle]

Perk up it isn't that weird.

[wetlookLover]

Well every girl I've brought it up with has acted like I'm a freak. Obviously they aren't as open-minded as you.

[ChibiCuddle]

Thanks, I try to be. Hey, tight clothes can be sexy! Maybe you should find a girl in our abdl community. We tend to pretty accepting people.

[wetlookLover]

Not sure the two things really go together? It's the shiny, tight look and smooth, cool feel that drives me insane! Can't control myself around them so eventually bought myself a few

[Anonymous]

I think it depends on how he reacts to things and how open and accepting or how closed and judgmental they are.
I am not an abdl but I am doubly incontinent and must wear diapers 24/7. I have found that for me anyway. I wouldn't bring it up the first day. Make sure he. Has feelings for you first. But don't wait too long either. With me I don't say anything until we start to get close and spending a lot of time together. If I spend a lot of time they will soon er or later hear , see or hopefully not smell me. And you don't want to get caught wearing a poopy diaper if she doesn't know about it

[Aizou]

Easy in on it. If the topic comes up, you can slowly inch in on what you like, while he does the same.

[ballweevil]

Just talk to him if loves you he will be supportive

[ChibiCuddle]

Thanks. I am just really embarrassed about it.

[ballweevil]

Dont be, we are all weird in some way

[Dannyman4114]

Hi chibicuddle I don't have that fetish but I am incontinent and must wear adult diapers 24/7 .
It can be very hard to find someone who is willing to take part in wearing or using diapers. It has been hard for me and I am medically doubly incontinent. There are lots of open minded people. I would not mind because I wear them too keep your head up

[thebigc]

Tell him. Just be aware that most people are not interested and he might dump you

[edgyfox]

Bring up the subject of Abdl somehow and see how he reacts to that. If the reaction isn't bad suggest trying it to see why others like it and continue from there.

[swampdonkeys]

After a couple shots of tequila... that’s how I did it

[femincodevotee]

Be honest, I consider myself a mommy, even though I wear myself sometimes. If he truley cares about you and loves you he will accept this, if not then he is not right for you.

[Djholte]

I have this same issue but also have bladder issues but last two gfs have tried it and like it

[3va11]

First off is he at all kinky?

[ChibiCuddle]

Not sure, he is shy and senstive tho. So maybe he would understand? It isn't a fetish, more of a comfort thing for me.

[3va11]

YouTube my girlfriend is An adult baby and watch the interview with him to see how he will react

[ChibiCuddle]

Okay. Who is the Youtuber?

[3va11]

https://youtu.be/m5HcJ-JqLX4

[ChibiCuddle]

I have seen it. I loved it!

[3va11]

Just be yourself he may not be into doing more then basic treating you sweetly but as long as you respect eachothers boundaries

[truthbeknown]

Offer him anal and you can anything you want!!!

[Suitfun2022]

Starr off by some small talk.

[Maazin]

Wtf lmao

[ChibiCuddle]

*Cries.* Please don't laugh at me. I just want to be myself.

[Maazin]

Alright. "stops laughing"

[2shredded]

Bruh.

[Anonymous]

WTF 😂😂😂😂

[ChibiCuddle]

*Cries* It isn't funny.

[Opinion Owner]

It's funny to me, you big baby😊

[ChibiCuddle]

I actually physically look like a 12-year-old. I wouldn't necessarily call that big. I am pretty small.